there are about two people that are always following me around and always wanting me to sit with them at lunch. I would be ok with that every now and then but this is like every day! Now I am in class with a girl i've been friends with since 3rd grade and we never get to talk because one of her friends say im not popular enough and my "friends" wont quit following me and i am too nice to tell them to leave... what do i do???
2006-11-27 08:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by Justme=] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its ok if your too nice sometimes but other thime like this just turn around and be like''hey i need a little space its cool to hang out with you guys but i kind of want a little time for my othe friends to'' i mean tell them yall can still hang out just not all the time it might be a shock to them but the'lll get use to it trust me
2006-11-27 08:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by A dime piece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy to have a lot of friends! Be nice to them all and tell the first two girls that on a certain day, you'll be sitting with your other friends. Don't ditch friends, just to win a popularity contest. However, if you've out grown your old friends and now have new interests, I would I would politely tell the first two friends that you are making new friends, as well, and you cannot be with them every day. Try not to offend them. Explaining that it's simply good to have a lot of friends, and you enjoy them all, will go a long way. Never speak badly of the old friends to the new ones, and if the new friends aren't that friendly, keep searching for a group of friends that will accept you as you are.
2006-11-27 16:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by bpember744@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friends to stop following you.the girl that doesnt talk to you that much you should talk to her and tell her also you dont need to be popular to talk to someone and not to listen to that person.try it you never know
2006-11-27 16:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter tell them everything you think
2006-11-27 16:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by *Cherrytop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to pick to you want to be with your friends or your best friend
2006-11-27 16:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by hardrickjanisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋