i have given up everything for this guy.i alienated my kids, divorced my husbsnd of 19 years, lost my house, had to file bankruptcy, and worst of all, we work together.he left me on friday to go back to his wife
2006-11-27 08:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
unfortunatly we make our choices and they will determine our destiny, u put too much faith into a man who u thought u could trust, and now u have lost your family and him both. have u spoken to your ex hubby, maybe he hasn't moved on, maybe he still loves u, don't let pride stand in your way now. u made a mistake and learned a very hard lesson here. u can't give up everything for a man not ever, u will need help getting through this, can tell u are just devistated by this. i would call my ex and see if there were any way i could patch things up with him. many times we have to go through these kinds of things to learn the lesson.
2006-11-27 13:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you must have really loved this guy! Unfortunately, your decision turned out bad for you. I don't know what to say, but try to make a relationship with your kids, and if they are young, they may not hold so much negativity, they can be forgiving. But if they are older, try to talk to them and explain the mistake you have commited. Hopefully, this big outcome has not only made you realize your mishap, but also learned from it. Never, EVER do this again. Nobody deserves it, imagine if it happened to you and your husband did all this? How would you help him? Or would you?
2006-11-27 16:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by yes, it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you learned the hard way about affairs. did this guy mean that much to you to do all that hurt and damage to your family? all you can do now is try to rebuild a relationship with your children, be prepared for their hurt and anger to come out. you caused this mess and now you'll have to live with it and try to salvage what's left of it.
i wish you good luck!!
2006-11-27 16:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CRAP, you were just complaining about not getting enough sex what's your problem don't you have anything better to do than to post crazy questions one after the other? GET A LIFE!
2006-11-27 20:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new job, start taking care of yourself, and try to move forward.
2006-11-27 16:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to move on, been there, hurts, I accepted Jesus into my heart, He love us, he went through everything for us....He is your answer....He is love....may God hold you in the palm of His hands....in Jesus name.....amen
2006-11-27 16:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋