Ok, well here's the thing. My supposed best friend started going out with my crush of 6 years. She knew I liked him and is going out with him anyway. She really hurt my feelings and she acts like she did absolutley nothing wrong. I try to tell her that she's hurt me, but she just gets mad. What should I do?
2006-11-27 08:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It looks like she's willing to sacrifice your friendship just for a guy. She's someone who's not worth your friendship anymore. I would just stop talking to her. When he dumps her eventually, she'll realize what a huge mistake she has made, and if she doesn't realize it, it's her loss anyway.
2006-11-27 08:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your true friend if she took your crush away. I would stop hanging with her. She doesn't care how you feel obviously if she gets mad every time you try to tell her your feelings on what she did. A friend is someone who would try to make amends for what they done. She isn't even trying.
2006-11-27 16:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by CHIGALORE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows what she's doing.My best friend(ex) knew how bad I wanted my husband back.She was so nice and supportive of me for a year.Next thing I know, she's living with him and trying to make me believe there was nothing going on.She said she needed a place to stay and he let her stay with him.DUH!! That's been 8 months ago and she's still there.My heart was broke and yet I was so pissed , I didn't know what to do.I haven't spoke to either one since.Actually she probably did me a favor because I'm definately over him and they both make me sick.I'd say bye to your friend.Like I said, she knows what she's doing and obviously don't care how you feel.She's the kind that would sleep with your husband and not think twice.The hell with her.Good luck! E-mail me if you need a shoulder. :)
2006-11-27 16:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do absolutely nothing. Accept the fact that the guy slipped right through your fingers and start looking for someone new.
Getting angry with your friend would only make you sick and in denial of the fact that he was never yours. You only wished he was and since you lost him, count your losses and move on with your life.
2006-11-27 16:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by yvonne o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should distance yourself from people who abuse your feelings so easily. Real friends would at least talk it through first. You should consider tha fact that your friend may actually have serious feelings for this guy though.
It is still wrong for you to have been treated in this way.
2006-11-27 16:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by pepper*mint*tea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are all the same and do these kind of bad things even against their best friends , I say go and fight for your boy , but be political. Go and tell the boy you want to be with him and you love him. that's it. good luck
2006-11-27 16:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by ak47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she gets mad tell her that she not a real friend and theres plenty of fish in the sea
2006-11-27 16:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sis,i will just advice u to be relaxed.......
check if ur cruch is also madly in love with her.......
if he is not den, u just write a letter to him and tell him everything.......
also tell him that ur friend is cheating him..........
all the best
2006-11-27 16:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not going to be a good friend....then leave her....
if she gets mad at u.......walk away... and think about it....if she breaks up with him....u can ask him out.
i hope this works!!! :)
2006-11-27 16:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Maria; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they maybe she not your Friend i mean you told her that you like him and she went for him anyway and that not what i would call a friend.
2006-11-27 16:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by fliersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋