im having my 14th birthday party in a few weeks, and i made the HORRIBLE mistake of telling everyone i was inviting about it before asking if they hated/didnt want to be around anyone.
1: michelle hates lauren because michelle thinks lauren is a whore. she thinks that because lauren breaks up with one guy one day, and gets a new bf the other! i agree, kinda whorish. but lauren might have her own reasons for doing that and i think you souldnt hate someone for that. sophie and emily dislike her to. but will still come for sure.
2: ashley hates michelle because ashley thinks michelle is just being to mean this year. i also agree with ashley. but michelle has said sorry at least once. ashley just doesnt want to beleive that.
now i have considered un-inviting lauren. but i hate doing that and lauren is practically my BEST FRIEND COMING.
and overall i've decided that their all invited and that if somebody doesnt come, its their own fault but i WOULD like them to.
any sudgesstions?
2006-11-27 08:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by Marissa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hahaha. dont worry, no drinking involved. that stuff is just gay and it smells bad. (no offence to anyone who drinks :P) but thank you for the concern of a party thats to big or dangerous. only 7 people and my parent NEVER leave the house during one. :P
oh and for you freaks who act like im a little kid:
go to ******* hell. i cant deal with you immuture bitches right now. im almost 14 and i dont need a 'mommy' to whatch over me hours a day. but with your 'obviously superior intelligance' you probobly do. so shut the hell up and go run into some walls. maybe you'll kill yourself then.
i know, that was rude. and i probobly should have just said "i know your mad. but do you really have to take it out on me? you probobly are a homeless, drunk, crack-whore living on the streets who has no friends." that make you feel better?
2006-11-27 08:30:01 · update #1
Oh dear, this used to happen to me all the time. How big a party is it? Will there be alcohol? If it's a small party or there'll be a lot of drinking then you might have a problem. I definately would ot uninvite Lauren, especially if she's your best friend, because that would open up a whole new set of problems.
What sometimes works is an appeal to their friendship.
"I know a lot of you don't really get on but please, could you just be nice to each other for tonight and don't spoil my birthday party. I'm only going to be fourteen once and if this night gets ruined I can never get it back. If I don't mean enough to you for you to make the effort, then I don't think you should come to the party."
Sure, it's emotional blackmail, but it might work.
TW x
2006-11-27 08:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try to at least try to ask everyone to just let their feelings out and tell each other in a cam,easy voice.But if they start to raise their voice that just say that they need to stop.The person that is like a whore maybe she needs to go to the school councilor.Maybe you should tell them that if the do not make hat you do not want a bad party and that if they do not make up then none of them can come.
The most important thing is that you do not need to get in the middle of it.If an one gets mad at you for not inviting them tell that person that you warned them and it is not your fault.
2006-11-27 08:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your party and if they don't like someone then that person or persons should stay home . it's a party for crying out loud kids. when i was that age the biggest problem was what where we going to wear. and what cute boys will be there ya''ll kids are way to grown for your own good. why give a party when everyone you invited is petty i say call it off and go to the mall with your friends. it's safer that way oh wait or will that be a problem to. and if Lauren is your best friend coming then why are you being two faced with her if she new that's what you are thinking i would dump you as a friend . if she is your best friend then you don't let others talk about her at all and you invite her with out any problems .
2006-11-27 08:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok soooooo i bypass to a occasion @ an aquatic center 2marrow (there's a TON of like water playgrounds and water logs etc.) and that i'm 13 btw so heres some techniques... start up the occasion in chlothes so u can play video games with out being soaked have some tornado mats and have a tornado tourament play opposite musical chairs! (u do away with chairs yet u attempt to get each and all the human beings onto chairs with the aid of doubling later tripling and quickly all and sundry on like 2 chairs! attempt to triumph over your record! Have a 10 minute cake adorning opposition!!!! split into boys v. women and see who has the final cake adorning skills! then u get 2 consume them!!!! Get a PINYATA! (tat iz hoow i speelz itt!!) its youngster-ish yet who pronounced its not exciting! split into boys n women returned and get the girls something stupid like a race motor vehicle and the boys like hi kitty and see who can kill theres first!!! LATER... substitute to swim fit so u can get moist! play poultry have pool noodle races water ballon tosses relay races examine 4 greater on line :) wish this helps!!!! Ur fortunate on your exterior! its snowing in my backyard!!!!! consequently they have aquatic centers right here :) _Maddie_from_MI!
2016-10-13 05:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok get them together for a dinner or something
2006-11-27 08:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the phase of teenagers. nothing to do about it. teenage girls are mean beyotches.
2006-11-27 08:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
does your mommy know you're on the computer
2006-11-27 08:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's what teenagers do.
2006-11-27 08:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋