hello my boyfriend said that he needed time so he brock up with me then he said that we were never going to get back together it was my fault because i was to clingy , i tink we are ment to be together and now i just need to find away to make him fall in love with me all over again
2006-11-27 07:54:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on. You're obviously still young.
Don't be a stalker and don't obsess. If he wants space and doesn't like clingy people, that's just the way it is. Trying to get him back just proves his point. Why obsess over a relationship with someone who doesn't like you the way you are?
2006-11-27 07:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him fall in love with you. I was in your shoes a year ago. I had pushed him away because I loved him soooo much. And I just let him go. He was gone for six months - and I missed the hell out of him. But I never let him know - not once. I sent him an occassional email - but never about us. And he came back. If it's true love, he'll be back. If not, he's still out there - you better get cracking! But the more you try here, the more you waste of yourself and your energy - he doesn't need all that - he's said he doesn't want it. Put it into something else, show him it doesn't have to be him. He'll be back.
2006-11-27 07:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if he's with someone else now? You really need to keep your distance from him either way....1. you don't want issues and drama with his new girl and 2. you don't want to be clingy like he says and run him farther away.
Just let him miss you. So many people don't get that, if you'd just back off, he might start to miss you and the relationship you had together. But with you constantly clinging to him, he'll never get that opportunity.
It's probably been about 30 minutes since you guys broke up, huh? Give it 30 days. If you can stand being indifferent towards him, your outcome might be what you want.
2006-11-27 08:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you said he broke up with you because you are clingy. Obviously you like being clingy and it is natural to you. So if he is not comfortable with it then the two of you are not meant to be. If you change what is natural to be with him then you are not being true to yourself and you may continue by changing other things about yourself. You risk the chance of resenting him in the future for making you change. It is best to just go out and find someone who will love you for the way you are. Dont waste time trying to win him back, Mr Right is out there waiting for you now go find him.
2006-11-27 08:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL the person who answered first is right on it. You could be clingy. Either way you are going to seem clingy whether that is why he broke up with you or if you try to get back with him you are going to seem to be clingy. Find someone else let your ex go
2006-11-27 07:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him fall in love with you again only thing you can do is go on with you life and if it was really ment to be he will come back and if not he wont im say this cause i went through it
2006-11-27 08:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by danettigallaway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it to yourself. recognize that he got what he came for and move on. Focus your mind in your school move on; education can take you places he NEVER would. He will have you stealing, selling things that would land you in jail you can never prove yourself to make him fall in love w/u again. Get your Bible and read Psalms 91 and the 23rd Psalms. Move on and thank GOD that you still have your life.
2006-11-27 08:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young... and if he broke up with you.. why would you want him back anyways since he left you? anways i advise you to just move on. Dont be clingy. it scares people away. and i think it's the lust talking not the love. but yeah. just move on!
2006-11-27 07:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Oaty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to his reason why he broke up with you. and there is no chance for you two to get together again. move on because you can do better and don't be to clingy, be stronger.
2006-11-27 08:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try being friends adn ask him if he wants to get back together just don't be so clingy, give him space adn let him have time to hang with the guys, he will appreciate it.
2006-11-27 07:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by christy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋