...any advice ore tips?
2006-11-27 07:37:43 · 8 answers · asked by Angelina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its all about the confidence, girl. i knew of many girls in my high skool who were popular yet not very fashionable or attractive. the thing is...they had confidence and were outgoing. people will learn to appreciate your unique style and love who you are! you don't have to be a follower, just be yourself!
2006-11-27 07:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, things have not changed over the past couple of centuries.
If you really want to be popular, you can get a million ideas from just watching high school movies. look at the cool kids and do what they do.
Some people do it with money, dressing in the latest treads
Some do it with sports, football team.
Your school might be unique so look around.
Personally. I would just make friends with alot of people.
If people give you crap, like just be yourself. they are not answering your question. It is the best way to feel good about yourself, but it will not necessarly make you popular.
2006-11-27 15:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by rewrite_h35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want my advice. If you aren't popular by now, it's not likely to happen. There's an inner circle that is made up of people who come from wealthy and powerful families. These are the offspring of founders and the local underground. If you're not in, you're not going to get in.
Instead, you will have to establish your reputation slowly. That way you will become more popular.
2006-11-27 15:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try and be popular you will waste time. High school is supossed to be a good fun time with hard work and rewards. My best advice is to stay as you are and be friends with the people you are now. Cherish the time together. You may not be popular to everyone but your popular with your friends.
2006-11-27 15:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually you have to just be relax around people. Be outgoing,nice,friendly and just have fun with it. You have to be a people person and start making new friends. Now I didn't say get rid of your old ones but, new ones never hurt. Most importanly just be yourself and if nobody don't like u for urself just don't worry about it b/c being popular ain't everything. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-27 15:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join groups and clubs. In my experiences, I’ve learned that most popular people are diverse. Perhaps you can join a sports team/cheer squad and a tutoring group or book club. Run for a class office or something. “In order to make friends, you must first show your self friendly”
2006-11-27 15:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by lissam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that the one's that are popular are friendly to everyone. They don't ignore or make fun of others that are different from them or hang out with others, unlike them. They tend to be more mature by understanding that being friendly to everyone is the way to be.
2006-11-27 15:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to be a serious and grumpy *****
don't ever try to copy "popular people's" style, it won't makae u popular, u'll just be called a wannabe, and if u become the desperate wannabe in their eyes...... lets say ur totalle out of chances.
show ur own personality/style, get them to respect u, try to do something crazy so ppl will talk about u, that'll lead to getting attention
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2006-11-29 16:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋