2006-11-27 07:29:13 · 20 answers · asked by Mark B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try talking to her. Yeah, I know it sounds cliche, but it actually works. Find a situation that is relaxed for both of you, a shared activity is good. Don't try to corner her or monopolize her time.
Let her get to know you and go from there.
An important thing to remember: there is no time limit, so don't rush , an opportunity will present itself eventually, just relax and let things happen at the best pace.
2006-11-27 07:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she knows that you like her so I don't believe in buying her something because that is what she is going to look for in the future. I mean if you two do end up having a relationship whether it be short term or long, when after a disagreement you are going to feel obligated in buying her something because that is how the relationship began. Never should you buy someone's affection. Be yourself and be respectful to her and then perhaps she will come around on her decision. You may also want to find out what her reasons are for not liking you in that way and don't change just make improvements on the reasons behind it. Or perhaps moving on will be key as well.
2006-11-27 15:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mariachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh.. an age old question. one thing to remember. you first need to find out what is her love language.
there are 5;
touch
quality time
gifts
words of affirmation ( good job, you look great today, congrats on the grade in science.)
acts of service. ( do something nice for her. offer to carry her book, paint her room, something simple.
once you know this you can do a whole lot better. and all these things can be small even open the door for her and if you find that she is a touch person slightly put your hand on the small of her back.
what ever you do make sure that if she is uncomfortable with what you do; that you back off. some girls like the cat and mouse game. show her some attention but then give her some space to reciprocate the interest.
2006-11-27 15:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by 5thcolumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to buy a gift to show how much you care for somebody. But if you feel you have to get a gift, buy a card or, you should just ask her flat out, and if she doesn't give you the answer you like then she obviously wasn't the girl for you.
2006-11-27 15:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is really stupid but anyways here i go... Girls love to be teased, and chased. so honestly if you keep it short when you are around her then chances are she will find you even more attractive. girls like to have something that they can't have or that they have to work for. I don't know but it always works for me. when she comes around just play it off. go meet a few new girls, go to the club, when she sees past the person that thrives off of her it will make her want you. good luck!
2006-11-27 15:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mark if the girl needs you to buy her something for her to like you keep walking.....
but ill give you some suggestions....
1.. never act deprest
2.. invite her places like the movies or to have lunch
3.. give her little signs that you like her
4.. flirt a little bit not to much dont over do it
5.. very important ....when she talks pay attetion to her LISTEN to her words look at her eyes ... well just pay attention..... if you need anything else get back to me at .... leoencendio_8487@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 15:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to like you but you can get to know her and she may end up liking who you are. That's not saying she will date you just that she will learn to like the person inside of you if you let her and maybe she will give you a shot.
2006-11-27 15:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man no Honey without money these days.be yourself change your style,be masculine with a nice facial features.Live like rich.Use a perfume.Always pass through her and just say Hello! and look in her eyes-how she is responding.
2006-11-27 15:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by C P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to talk to her. Be yourself be nice and respectable. Also be romantic but beenin' romantic doesn't always means you needs to have sex with her but, just be yourself though like I said the first and don't give up sooner or later she would start to like you....GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-27 15:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alway's remember to just be yourself at all times, never buy friends depend on how old you are their are a lot of things you can do to just get her attention.
2006-11-27 15:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Earl H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋