My friend and I are 15. Her ex is 17. He is always commenting on my chest to my friend. I have a large chest for my age and he likes to comment about it. He says stuff like Jackie has a nice chest, great boobs stuff like that. My friend and I have polietly asked him to stop. He doesn't give up on it. Im so sick of it. I also have another problem. My friends, boys and girls comment on my chest. I'm so so tired of it. Its inappropriate and I want people to like me for who I am not the size of my chest. What do I do. Thanks in advance.
2006-11-27 07:25:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do cover my chest I dont parade around with my chest hanging out nor do I wear tight clothing.
2006-11-27 07:28:48 · update #1
First suggestion......stop hanging out with your friends ex. he is a rude, immature little boy.
second, i know exactly how you feel. i too, "matured" very young and much more than any of my friends. i wish i could tell you it gets better, but it doesnt. those immature little boys grow up to be immature old men. there will be a lot of people who will notice only your chest size...or at least notice it first. the only thing that i did, was continue to dress appropriate, hold my head up and look people directly in the eye. and once in a while i have to remind someone that my eyes are on my head, not my chest, but those are not the people i choose to be friends with.
remember, they wont bother you if they think they cant. so be confident, and choosy!
2006-11-27 07:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by rbmmom 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is tell them how you feel. Tell, them you find it very inappropriate that they have to keep talking about it! Just tell them it's a natural thing that there going to have to deal with and deal with soon otherwise your going to have to move on with friends that will respect you for you and not for what you have! And for that 17 your old.. If, he isn't stopping, I would tell your parents.. (Don't think telling your parents is the baby way out) cause it's not. It's just that you have respect for yourself, and your tired that an immature 17 year old has to be like that... He could get in a great deal of trouble for sexual herasment....
Best of luck to you!!!
2006-11-27 07:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are they serious about it? When someone says things that I don't like I usually make a joke about it. Ex: One of my friends said that I had big boobs when I took my sweater off, due to heat, in front of a guy I liked. I felt warm in the face from embarrassment, but I rebounded and made a joke about it.
2006-11-27 07:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by K & Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Jackie B: Your friends are jealous !
They cry at night, especially the girls:" Why not me "
The little boys don't appreciate nature's beauty !
Beside, too insecure !
This doesn't sound like friends?, to me at all !
"Who needs'em" ?
2006-11-27 07:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Frank N. S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang around with people who make comments you don't like
2006-11-27 07:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by lozatron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some juviniles take time to grow up... i hate to say it but its something u have to deal with people are goin to oggle u and u have to pretend to not see unless the get to touchin' then u have all grounds to b firm w/ them for touching ur person!
2006-11-27 07:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him that you have a big chest and brains too.....more then what he has. Tell him stop teasing cause he ain't ever going to get it.
2006-11-27 07:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by lisa b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys like that period steer clear from. and dont be afaid let him know how you feel, if he laughs or dosent seem to care stay away from him, hes a complete jerk!
2006-11-27 07:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥JENN♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your parents or a trusted teacher at your school.
2006-11-27 07:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, men and boys are attracted to women with large breasts - so you will just have to get used to guys talking about how big your breasts are and how nice they look.
I know it makes you uncomfortable - but you'll just have to get used to it.
2006-11-27 07:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋