am i just paranoid?

Question

my fiance and i give each other orgasms usually every 2 days or so. but only with our hands...so like no intercourse...am i paranoid to think i'm pregnant or what? should i get a test or just wait for my period?

i don't know what the symtoms of pregnancy are...i've heard of people getting pregnany w/o actually having intercourse....

Answer 1

Did you use either of you have ejaculate on your hands and then place them in side you or on your vulva? If so it's possible. If not then your just worrying without cause.

The earliest you can check is 5 days prior to your period with a blood test otherwise you really need to wait until 2 days after your missed period for the most accurate results with a urine test. If you are really panicing get a blood test as soon as you can. Think about going and starting some sort of birth control method if your not then you won't have to go through this again. Perhaps the dep provera shot would be a thought.

Answer 2

Immaculate Conception ...as in the birth of the Christ child. You could be the next Mary (that was his Mom). Good time of year for that sort of thang too.

It's just guilt you are feeling probubly. You know, sexual release feels so good, you gotta be doing something wrong and if you are doing something wrong you gotta be punished. So your worst nightmare (getting pregnant without intercourse, at your age) would be a perfect punishment conjured up by whoever doles out such punishments.

Actually, you can get pregant with just finger play if some of that good stuff gets up into the bull's eye area. Not very likely however.
Do be aware of this. Not to be sordid or inappropriate but if you catch the fish in your mouth and either swallow it or dispense carefully elsewhere out of the field of play, you don't have to worry as much. (If you do the oral thang ...be aware you can get AIDS that way or other STD's. Hmmmmm. Maybe that's not such a good suggestion!)
Plus your guy'll love you that much more!
Don't sweat it too much. Relax and enjoy the action while you can. No worries! (but stay alert with all this well intended advice!)

Answer 3

probly but its really cheap so just do it for the sake of your mind quick, also i'd like to comment that its only every 2 days and your not even married yet and why that way because your not married? my fiance and I do that to but intercourse as well sorry thats your business but the frequency is odd unless your not living together or something it should be a few times a day I think but who cares Good luck KIMBUR

Answer 4

Ok..so you have never had sex with him? If you haven't then your not pregnant, or there is a 1 in a 1,000,000 chance that you are pregnant. If it will make you feel better get a test, otherwise wait until your period comes which im very sure it will.

Answer 5

I don't understand how you think you got pregnant. unless you or he manually put his semen in you! Anyways doesn't seem like you're even old enough to be doing what you are doing ..if you're not sure how or if you are pregnant!! I mean find something better to do with your time please...babies are wonderful..but they are a lot of work..wait until you're old enough to care for one in the right way!!

Answer 6

Just paranoid, because you can only get pregnant if sperm inters your vagina.
Women don't have to have an orgasm to get pregnant, but they do need sprem.

Hope this helps.

Answer 7

You cant get pregnant from a finger. If you arent having intercourse you cant be pregnant.

Answer 8

I don't think you have anything to worry about, but if you are worrying day in and day out about this, I would go buy a home pregnancy test.

Answer 9

You can't get pregnant by giving someone a hand job. It's physically impossible.. unless you are putting his semen into your vagina manually, I doubt you are pregnant.

Answer 10

Chances are it's all in your mind unless somehow sperm got on his hand/ fingers and ended up in you, in that case, keep your fingers crossed and wait for your period.