Well you see it all started out when I had a huge fight with one of my other friends but afterwards my best friend and I also had a fight coz I told her that she was ditching me for this other girl, she then went to the other girl and we havnt spoken since!!! I'm really upset about this coz we havnt spoken in over 2 months and I feel hurt and betrayed but I also feel like it was my fault! I know that I shouldn't have said that but I was just being honest!!!! I really miss her and wanna mend things between us but she won't listen!!!
2006-11-27 06:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by Milz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look since she won't listen you go up to her and apologize and tell her how you really feel, trust me she will listen because you are doing the right thing and you are bold enough to let her know that you want your best friend back and it's tearing her up inside because she can't find the time to listen or forgive you. Once she realizes how a good person or a friend you are, it will come to her senses and y'all would become best friend again.
2006-11-27 06:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by charliette_berry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by "she won't listen"? first you said that you haven't spoken, then you said that she won't listen, so have you talked to her or not???
if you havent', then try sending her an email or a card or give her a call and let her know that you are sorry.
otherwise, you need to just get over it. the situation is out of your control at this point.
i was in a similar situation, however, my friend and i got through the argument... things are just "different" now.
it might be over between you, so just realize that friendships change and evolve over a life time, and you will find new friends.
2006-11-27 14:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, the best way is reverse phycology. just pretend not to care. and if she just doesn't want to be ure friend screw her. make her jelous and find another friend to do stuff with, either she will come around or she wasn't a true friend to begin with in which case you need to move on.
2006-11-27 14:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋