i just recently told my closests friends that i am bi, and they flipped out!! one slapped me, the other doesn't even talk to me any more! it is wicked hard, and if i could chose, i would, but it just happens. HELP!!!!!
2006-11-27 05:50:53 · 23 answers · asked by J.Funk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds as though they were never your friends. Friends are supposed to be accepting and they should not judge you. Get new friends that will accept you for who you are. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 05:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u did a hard thing by coming out of the closet! There is nothing wrong with being Bi-sexual, that is your sexual orientation and a close friend should support u no matter what. maybe reavaluate your friends. If u r happy with this i say go for it. Keeping this in would only make u sick and depressed.
2006-11-27 13:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by expat0171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they need some time to accept who and what you are. If time passes and they still haven't accepted the fact that your bi, then maybe it's time you find some new friends who will love you for you. Give them some time. Everyone is different so they might need more time than others. Ultimately, I don't think their willing to accept you. I wouldn't continue associating with someone who slapped me anyway. So maybe it's time for you to move on and find some better friends.
2006-11-27 13:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you ignore the ignorant Bible thumper "LOLOW" up there.
Sounds like your friends are a little closed minded. Young people especially tend to want to fall into accepted norms. This is why bi and gay people will stay "in the closet" for so long. Hopefully these people will grow up, until they do, try to find some other people who are more like minded, a lot of schools now have a gay-straight alliance club. Maybe you could find people there who are more empathetic. Good Luck.
2006-11-27 14:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by madcatlover7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are who you are and no one should judge you for your decision, not even your closest friend they should stand by you. If they don't then there really not your friends, I would just move on and not talk to them, if they are true friends they will come around and respect your decision. Remember you are the most important person, make yourself happy, then the people around! Good Luck
2006-11-27 13:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by A.K.A NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends would accept you for who you are no matter what, not slap you... Just give them some time to grasp the concept that you are bi and they will come around...that is if they are your real good friends..
2006-11-27 13:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is how you feel than that is just how you feel. I am a firm beleiver in the Bible, but I am also Human and I know how people feel. Your friends should not judge, they sound like they are not good friends anyway. A true friend would be their no matter what. And I believe you should change friends if they don't turn around.
But whatever you do don't change for them BE YOURSELF
2006-11-27 13:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by caddy12_99_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your true friends they'll stick by you. Sometimes, news like that is a shock and all sorts of things run through your mind like...OMG I've changed my clothes in front of her.Give em time if they come around they're the kind of friends that lasts a life time. But remember YOU ARE TRULY FORTUNATE TO HAVE ONE TRUE FRIEND IN A LIFE TIME
2006-11-27 13:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure they feel you have betrayed them and or their confidences. You have made them feel uncomfortable now about things that have happened in the past. Time will heal it or it won't. Not everyone agrees with the choices you have chosen.
2006-11-27 14:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jim7368 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, and I guess you will see who your true friends are now. Just go through life being you. You will find true friends along the way!
2006-11-27 13:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by BlankProfile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋