I've had girls in their twenties but this one in her mid thirties doesn't get as wet as the younger ones. Does this have to do with age? What can i do as this hurts my penis during intercourse?
2006-11-27 05:41:54 · 30 answers · asked by ddman 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it happens after the menopause and that can happen to women from 40 onwards sometimes it can happen to younger women so its best you use ky jelly or other lubricant
2006-12-01 04:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by arfa54321 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not usually until the menopause, when hormonal changes can make vaginal dryness a problem.
Different women produce different amounts of natural lubricant, and may respond differently to different sexual partners.
First, try ensuring that she is genuinely willing to have sex with you and is fully turned on. Maybe you need to spend more time on foreplay? Many people feel that even when this is taken into account, things are still enhanced by the use of extra lubrication. These days you can get all kinds of different lubes, some are liquid and some are gels, some are oil-based, some water-based and some are silicon-based. Some are flavoured and some have an added tingly or warming ingredient for added pleasure. Be careful though, if you use barrier methods of contraception (condoms or diaphragm) to get a lube which is safe to use with these and doesn't degrade the latex.
2006-11-27 05:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by purplepadma 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It can be to do with age, but it can also just be coincidence - alot of younger women suffer with vaginal dryness, and many older women maintain a high level of moisture.
If it is a problem, you can use a lubricant such as KY Jelly. If you are using condoms, make sure it is a water based lubricant, as some others can dissolve the condoms slightly, making them less effective.
2006-11-27 05:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's just a simple fact that some girls get wetter than others. Unfortunately, some girls (very few) don't get wet at all. And, of course, there are all kinds of "in betweens". I'd say this girl you are talking about is an "in between" because women don't start getting dry till they are in their 60's on average. Use a lubricant.
2006-11-27 05:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Women don't lubricate as much as they get older, but 30's is pretty young for this problem. She might be on a medication (even birth control) that affects it, or she might just not be all that into having sex with you. Use a personal lubricant or wait a while before having sex...get into more foreplay.
2006-11-27 05:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It could be to do with the contraception she is using. Could be side effects of other medications she may have to take too. It would hardly be her age as she is still young. It differs from one woman to the next. Use a water based lubricant. Durex do good lubricants as well and you can have fun with them.
2006-11-29 10:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by cherub 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, it happens as you get older, it happens due to medications she may be taking, it happens after childbirth, it happens with hormone changes.
If it is hurting you, it is probably hurting her too. Take more time for foreplay to stimulate her natural lubricant, or use KY jelly or other lubricant available at the drugstore
2006-11-27 05:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by revmissus 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. This has nothing to do with age - - it just depends on the female. Somefemales have a much harder time getting excited than others.
Extend foreplay or Use a lubricant if it hurts.
2006-11-27 05:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brey 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't think so, it's just different bodies, some people produce more. Use a lubricant and that should help.
2006-11-27 05:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, when they go through menopause or get closer too it their body slows down production of the natural lubricant
2006-11-27 05:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by rache6987 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋