When my girlfriend & i 1st got together (almost 2 yrs ago) we were having sex like crazi. Whenever we were around eachother we were going at it. Now i dont expect that to last forever of course, but it has gotten progressively sooooo slow I cant stand it! Now its like her sex-drive has went from 100% to 60% & i would really hate for it to decline it any more. My mind has kinda been playing tricks on me and im wondering if there may be another reason....like she may be getting it from somebody else, or she isnt as attracted. Any advice?
2006-11-27 05:31:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, ask her. She has to know that you are feeling different. If there is a problem, talk it over and come to a decision that can please you both. Dont jump to the conclusion that there is someone else, thats not fair to her.
2006-11-27 05:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by JB 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the thrill from having a new relationship has just worn off a little. I doubt she is cheating on you. There might be something wrong though. You should talk with her about it, and see what she has to say and how she feels. Or maybe your sex life just needs to be spiced up a little bit. Get some books about the subject and try new things, it might be that she has just gotten bored with the same old routine.
2006-11-27 05:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Manx 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to ask her directly. Yes, time is a big factor. Being with the same person does mean that the intensity goes down. Other possibility is that she is stressed out or depressed. Adultery is probably the last cause.
2006-11-27 05:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come on now! Are they rather married, or did you in simple terms positioned the note "spouse" in there, so that you ought to submit a question in this section? move decrease back and browse your question some situations, and also you'll see how "unmarried and relationship" it sounds.
2016-11-27 01:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're experiencing is common and happens in most relationships once the "honey moon" phase is over. You have to communicate with her about the issue, improve the issue, transform your relationship, or move on.
2006-11-27 05:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by tashatactics 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this is soooooo very normal in any relationship, especially hetero. I am so relieved to read that it exists in homosexual relationships to. probably has little to do with attractiveness,cheating or low sex drive, but more likely growth and comfort.
2006-11-27 05:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by jdaniels6363 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband complains of this same thing...and one thing I can assure you..I'm NOT cheating..can't explain where the drive went..except stress, horemone changes..maybe bordem....try to spice things up....romance...make some effort to excite her...and one thing for certain I can tell you....nagging her...or trying to make her feel guilty for it will only make matters worse! Give her a boost..that's all she needs!
2006-11-27 05:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if i was in that suition i would talk to her about it, maybe she was getting tired of it, or maybe she just needs a break lol but dont blame her for cheating until u actually know lol u no what i mean, just give it time maybe she'll want to have at it again! lol
2006-11-27 05:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Amber B. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Alls you have to do iss talk about it with her. And try to set a romantic theme for her and see how that goes.
2006-11-27 09:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u two had too much sex and she's bored.
2006-11-27 05:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋