I just broke up with my boy friend because he cheated on me. What are some things I could do to him to make him feel as horrible as I did?
2006-11-27 05:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THROW HOT WATER IN HIS FACE.
2006-11-27 07:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ituneu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst and best thing you could do, for him, is to get on with your life. If you treat him horribly/get even with him, he'll have reasons to like you intensely. You don't want him to hate you, you want him to know what he missed out on and where he messed up.
If you are the bigger woman, one who can keep her head calm and straight while she walks away from man who probably deserves a punch to the face, that is what people will notice. That is what has a much more rewarding return. You will feel good by hurting him back for maybe a day or so, but it won't last, and you'll feel and look awful afterwards. This isn't about getting even, it's about being the best you can be. You have learned... you now are more experienced and will have better clues on how to pick the right man to date for yourself.
Know what's horrible? That he does not have a chance with you, ever, again. I think that's horrible enough, don't you? Keep that head up.
2006-11-27 05:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do to make him feel bad is be happy. I know, sounds silly. But really, show him that you are plenty happy without him and moving on. Hold your head up, be confident and show him how much you DON'T need him. He'll see what he let go and kick himself....keep in mind there is no way that he will let you know he is having regrets....he will want to have his dignity (or what's left of it), but in bed at night, you can bet he'll be thinking about what he's done and what hes left behind!
2006-11-27 05:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by D R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only stupid people seek revenge for wounded pride. Is that you? People with intellegence learn from their mistakes, watch out in the future as to what to look for and move on with their lives. Or is that you? lets see what you do.
Stupid?...or Smart?
I'm betting the former. Any takers?
2006-11-27 05:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HIM.
Do not talk about him....do not talk to him....just leave him out of your vocabulary for months.....at least.
This will bother him more than anything...that you are not crying and begging him to be with you. By leaving him in the dust, you are showing him that your completely respect yourself enough to forget about a dumbass like him.
I bet if you do that....his whiny little butt will come crying back.
2006-11-27 05:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone asks why you broke up. Just be truthful.
Then let it go. It, and he are not worth the effort of getting even.
It will probably hurt him more to see that you are happy.
Best of luck.
2006-11-27 05:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him . make him fell and see that u r batter then him and u deserve the best buy going out with successful guys. batter then him.
2006-11-27 05:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life and be happy!!!!
2006-11-27 05:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why waste your time
2006-11-27 05:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by burnbulb7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋