Women. do other ladies ever really disappoint you ...read on!!?

Question

A week or so ago i posted this picture for my avatar, it was a suggestion from a friend in order to see how many shallow men there are on this site. It worked, within minutes i was receiving email addresses and comments on my looks rather than my questions. Now men get a lot of stick about being shallow and judging a woman based on looks and sometimes its justified as these men proved.

What surprised me though was the reaction from women, the bitterness and jealousy could be felt for miles, women answering my questions calling me a t.art and only answering my questions in order to insult me. Now lets get this straight, i am quite obvioulsy not the woman in the picture, its a modelling shot. But this woman exists and who are we to decide her personality or intelligence based on her photo. She probably earns thousands of pounds for modelling while you idiots sit at your desks for minimum wage, so who's smarter??

According to a woman in my last question i can only be cultured if i stop looking like a T.art, anyone care to explain why this is.??
Honestly ladies we sit and criticise men for going after looks, but maybe the problem is that some of you are so bitter and twisted that no man would want you. Jealousy isn't an attractive trait to a man so its no wonder they go for the stunners with the confidence. For those women who didn't do this i apologise but those who did, shame on you, you make me sick sometimes.

To the women that have answered so far thank you for restoring my faith, but isn't it odd how all the other women have gone very quiet now they've been pulled up on it??

I understand the competition part, i really do. Don't you think i wished it were really me in that pic, the point is i would never show my bitterness about somebodys looks, i would purely try to blow them out of the water with my personality, which i think i have the ability to do. Any man that doesn't respect that quite frankly isn't worth my time.

And you must be single bob b, or did the big words confuse you. Read it moron i'm defending the skinny women, so what does my weight have to do with it.

Thank you Zulu9 thats sweet. But i think you and i know theres a few on here that should thank there lucky stars that they haven't met me.

Of course Zulu but you can wear the maids outfit tonight ok??

Answer 1

Yes, I get bitchy comments from women too and one is going out of her way to report all of my questions and answers, to the point that I'm not on here much anyway. And yes, the men are also very sad, 99.9% of them contact with me a 'hey babe, wanna chat'..... about what exactly? Christ! The ones that I have bothered to respond to are intelligent and witty and to be honest they are the ones that I would like to talk to (men and women).

I even had a woman contact me with a string of obscenites saying how it wasn't me in the picture and I should put a picture of a pig there as that is me really... hmnn... ok, sweetie-pie.

Essentially women are mostly horrible, which is why I tend to surround myself with male friends. I only have 3 close female friends. Men I find are far less complicated, at least they are up front and honest about what they want.

Good question though.

Answer 2

I agree, women are sometimes more shallow than men. They are also their own worst enemy. If they turn on each other at the drop of a hat, what does that say about them? I do not agree that this would excuse the shallow and thoughtless actions of males. I know a lot of women who have really gone into relationships with a wonderful sweet and optimistic view and come out of those same relationships the most bitter of human beings you would ever imagine. I do not think a man has the right to play with a woman's emotions, and is wrong for treating a woman in such a wretched way. The problem in our society is the loss of morality for both genders. Until we address this problem we are going to have bitter people who are walking around with a lot of hurt who lash out at others for their situation.

Answer 3

Pardon me for butting in on a Ladies Only question, but you have left off one very important point - the question posted by you which drew such opprobrium was deliberately worded to make you sound stupid and vacuous. In your own words, shallow. Based on your question - that you had been told that you needed to become more cultured so have started drinking Yakult - both the men and women on this site were entitled to think that you are a bimbo. The photograph merely reinforces that impression, and you appear not to have stopped to consider that. True, there are idiots who won't look past the well-filled, tiny pink bikini - one dimwit posted nothing but a series of exclamation points followed by 'wow' - but did you stop to think that the 'jealous' women on this site are actually indignant that you posted such a brainless question? Let's be clear - there was no irony in your posting; you really did represent yourself, and by extension other "good looking" (whatever that means) women as so bloody thick that you thought that the question you asked was a legitimate one. You shouldn't complain if you were judged on that basis; you asked for it.

Answer 4

I really think women place more importance on other women's looks than men do! I went out to the pub on Saturday and I wore a skirt because I like my legs. There was a group in the girls (all friends with each other) in the toilets taking the piss because I was wearing a skirt! By the way, I would never say a nasty word to anyone, so it's not like they were trying to get me back for anything. I had to fight back the tears. I felt a bit better when the blokes outside at the bar heard everythng that was said and told the girls what jealous bi.tches they were!

Answer 5

I think people who are not naturally outgoing or confident are quick to put others down who might pose a threat to them - real or imaginary! It seems that although YA is mostly a fun place to be, some really horrible people have found their little paradise, where they can be as judgemental, rude and obnoxious as they like and theres not a lot anyone can do about it! I'm glad these people are in the minority but its a shame that just one snide comment has the power to upset some people that are on here for the fun of it.

Answer 6

I do find myself disappointed with other women but no more than I am disappointed with human nature in general. It's ridiculous how much people will jugde you based on your image, it's both sexes men can be shallow, vultures especially lurking around on the internet it's really disgusting and i'd never associate myself with a man who was interested in me based solely on the way i look. However women can be jealous and just as shallow. They are judgemental as well assuming you're dumb, or easy. it comes from their own insecurities and bitterness. Some were also likely to get angry bcus they saw the responses that the guys were writing to you. I wouldn't take anything these people say to you to heart. about the smarter question, i don't know the girl in the picture so I cant really judge her but if we're assuming her profession is modeling we can't say she's necessarily smarter bcus she makes a lot of money, when essentially all the profession is is selling your body and giving little girls negative body images. But whose to say she isn't a rocket scientist and just happens to be a knock out. we may never know. Stay away from the creepy guys trying to pick you up online and ignoring the jealous girls.

I keep checking back to this question, now I have a question. I wonder why the men who are responding the way they are and flagging anyone who says something negative about them as a sex are so mad?

Answer 7

You make a valid point. I've actually been shocked on occasions when people have responded to my questions in order to insult me for being blonde. I think one answer I got to a serious question went something like "Um, like, go, like play with your barbies"! What?! I think the Internet is partly to blame because its faceless and impersonal. These people (male or female) would not make those comments to the woman in the picture if they met her face to face. They wouldn't act on that twinge of jealously they felt towards her. But the Internet allows people to say what they like with limited repercussions so anyone with stereotypical shallow views can express them freely. Also, I think there would be a certain amount of resentment and bitterness towards the picture you posted, not just because of jealously issues. Also, because of what it suggests. Anyone who posts a picture of themselves in a bikini on the net for the world to see is probably a bit tarty (generally speaking of course) and doing it purely for the attention so certain people are going to react to this negatively and insult the person. Its not a case of who's smarter in this though, its a case of morals.

Answer 8

It's interesting - since I had my avatar (nope, not real either, sorry chaps) I haven't had a single b*itchy comment from anyone. Just lots of pervy e-mails from the male of the species.

I guess it's a beautiful body that brings out the spite in other women, not faces. Hmmmm...wonder why.

Anyway, babe, I hope you're not really letting these unintelligent bimbos get to you, are you? If their lives are so empty that they have to go online and insult people they have never met, then they deserve our pity.

And - humph - I thought you were going to let ME wear the maid's outfit tonight. I look much more fetching in it than Zulu does.

Answer 9

Why even bother "blowing someone out of the water"? There is no need to compete. Remember that you are a one of a kind, unique person, perfect in every way. The "women" who have written in with pettiness and jealousy are probably quite young (not necessarily, chronologically, mind) or don't have enough understanding of the nature of life to respect themselves. Women AND men need to understand that if you like yourself, others will like you. Yes, there will always be desperate men out there trying to email or phone a "pretty girl" and there will, sadly, probably always be unhappy women out there blaming other women because they're lonely.
To everyone, remember there "is a lid for every pot" and if you don't believe that, at least take this on board: Looks will fade but who you are inside will only get better if you let it.

Answer 10

I think, whether thats you in the picture or not, theyre hot and should be proud.
I agree, some men are so shallow and only go for women on looks, not personality.
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