I have a jealous partner! I love him to bits, (he had a tough time with his last girlfriend), anyhoo I have been with him for 5 years and just do my best to reassure him, If I meet new people I make sure he gets introduced to them as soon as possible so he doesn't jump to conclusions, I include him in plans and nights out because to be honest I prefer to have him out with me anyway, as I said I love him and enjoy his company! I think it would be strange to have a partner that doesn't get jealous....it would be like they didn't care! If you love the guy help him through it if you can't be arsed with the hassle dump him!
2006-11-27 22:26:42
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answered by xoclairexo 3
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The simple answer is you can't unless you are prepared to keep telling him he's Mr Wonderful, handsome, gorgeous, the only one in the world for you etc. When I was younger, the man I eventually married was so jealous that he used to give me 'the third degree' if I ever spoke to another man, or if I was late from work. I loved him to bits but my life was hell at times. He used to accuse me of going with other men which I never, ever did. It took an illness which left me close to death to stop him being so stupid. I don't know how much you love your partner but your life won't be any picnic if you stick with him.
2006-11-27 05:08:04
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answered by Sandee 5
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appears like he's not the commiting form or he's not waiting emotionally he's not accessible yet. i imagine he became not waiting to initiate a relationship and in simple terms kept on having rebound relationships. now that you've a daughter, the proper ingredient to do is to provide him time and help to get over his previous relationships. specifically the marriage. do not stress him to dispose off the marriage playing cards and album and so on. as a replace, help him dispose off the information and approaches of his ex spouse and intensely last marriage. what you may do is that you ought to be more advantageous effective to him. be very very loving, be his pal and hear to all his ideas. love him and practice love as a lot as plausible. as for that 16 year previous ho, she's no one and she or he must be the least of ur concerns. in case you'll have a superb relation with him, no you may come contained in the middle.
2016-11-27 01:46:28
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answered by ? 4
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For what reasons he feels jealous of you? Pour some cold water on him. He will feel cool.
2006-11-27 08:46:00
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answered by Dumboo 3
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HE needs to grow up it's his trouble you better not fall into the trap of that sort of thing now take hold of your life. Be your own boss dont let him tell you what to do.
Just had my 28th wedding anniversary :-)
2006-11-27 04:42:30
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answered by yahooisawastofspaceremoveme 3
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You deffo cannot stop him
and from experience the more time you spend with him (i.e. so that he doesn't get jealous about what you're doing when you're away from him), the more paranoid he gets when you do actually spend some time away
2006-11-27 04:40:54
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answered by Anna B 1
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tell him that jealousy is a possessive emotion that is soulfully about ones self. tell him to reline any sort of envy that would jeopardise your relationship and say it points out emotional intelligence that is lacking in a grown man. and men aren't attractive when this issue occurs. you are a woman whom shouldn't be burden by such childish notions of love and a adult relationship.
2006-11-27 04:35:53
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answered by shadow 5
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Carry on being faithful.
2006-11-27 04:57:02
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answered by lulu 6
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You can't, that's how he is meant to be. Only he can change that behavior.
If it bothers you so much you want to change him or her......talk it out and if necessary leave. Your first duty in happiness is to yourself.
2006-11-27 04:39:07
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't. The only person whose actions you control is you. Sorry.
2006-11-27 04:50:24
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answered by DelK 7
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