Is it fare for women to always clean up the house?

Question

Why are men so lazy when it comes to there own house hold, and expect the women to do all the work.

Answer 1

it is really too bad, he should do himself or engage somebody to clean up house and other related works, especially when his wife is 8 months pregenet.
good luck - jindajind !

Answer 2

Does the woman work outside the home? If not then she should do the housework - of course the man should do all the outside stuff, lawn trash, repairs etc. in any case. Also, one of the reasons men don't do housework is maybe because they tried a couple of times and got yelled at for "not doing it right". That would be all that it would take for me to leave that job for someone else....

Answer 3

yes it is fair, for women to clean the house hold, unless you are working full time, then the chores should be split. Otherwise you should earn your respect in a position that a lot of women are fortunate to have

Answer 4

Because Mummys bring them up to be like that! (Ouch!)

Seriously, they're not all like that. But if you insist that they are, then let me turn the question around: why do women let them get away with it?

Playing the 'blame game' will not work here, in my humble opinion.

Answer 5

If you do it, they will expect it.

If you say specifically, please take the sheets off the bed and put them in the wash, they will do it.

If you want him to pitch in tell him what you want him to do - if he balks then only do what you want and let the rest go.

Ask for specific and doable tasks that he can complete in 15 minutes to half hour.

Answer 6

It's only fair if she doesn't work, or if he does all the yard work, home maintenance, garbage hauling, etc.

Answer 7

preach on sister!! i hear ya. my man says "well, i work all day"