I've had my share of a relationship for a 1 1/2 years... I've gone from the butterflies in my stomach and giving my all and proving myself to being hurt, accused, disrespected. I've grown to respect myself more and listen and realize what I want now. And taking time out for myself and not desiring to be in a relationship at all now... I've never felt this feeling before? What's wrong with me? Is it me?
2006-11-27 04:24:06 · 7 answers · asked by olyella16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Right now you are out of any relationship and since the past ones have dealt you with abuse and disrespect you have put up natural defences to protect yourself. There is nothing wrong with you it
is now that you have realized it's not a goof thing to wear your heart on your sleeve you'll just get hurt. You will have these defences for awhile and that is good because it may just give you that radar to weed out the jerks until you find the right guy who will treat you like and angel. Though right now I would just lay low and give yourself some time to heal your wounds. God Bless and Good Luck.
2006-11-27 04:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the best thing you could do for yourself. If you are unable to be independent and content with yourself; you will never be content with someone else. You will expect that person to make you happy in all things. You need to be "whole" and thus a partner in the relationship for it to be successful. Nothing wrong with being alone. When the time is right and the potential partner is right ; You will know. Stop second guessing yourself! Work on that. When you stop seeking the answers from strangers then you will be ready to move on. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 12:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'Cause we're here to learn big life lessons?
"I've grown to respect myself more and listen and realize what I want now. And taking time out for myself and not desiring to be in a relationship at all now"
- Congratulations, you've made so much progress... you should be proud of yourself, that's a GREAT position to be in :-)
2006-11-27 15:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong. You just need time to find yourself again. So many times we lose our identities when in a relationship. Just give yourself time to heal, you will find the right one eventually.
2006-11-27 12:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youneed to figure out what it is you want in a relationship and who can best help fulfill those needs
2006-11-27 12:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nuthin' wrong with you. People are so use to being hurt that they can't easily let their guards down.
2006-11-27 12:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Scooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "Owen E"
2006-11-27 13:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋