so at school my friends are acting a bit weird with me.
In maths a few days ago, i got moved to another seat for talkin and then i was askin one of my best mates, who was infront of me what page we was on in the text book and she wouldnt answer me. She eventually turns around and says 'stop distracting me!' i was like wat!!
Then after at lunch time my other friend was asking me what i ws doing after school and i said i was going to hang in the park for awhile! then she asks if im staying there with jack and i say yes. So then shes like why! you know he smokes and drinks so you shouldnt hang with him! She was having a complete OVER reaction about nothing!
Then my other friends just blatantly ignore me and say stuff about me behind my back saying im a rebel which is soooo pathetic but they used to be my best friends and now theyre not! please help because i dont understand! thnx
x...X...x15yr old gurl UKx...X...x
2006-11-27 04:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like maybe your friends are worried about you? They're saying you're a rebel, and they're unhappy about you hanging out with someone who smokes/drinks. Think about it this way - has your behavior changed recently? Maybe they don't understand why and they're feeling a little bit like they're losing their old friend. Think about if you've changed at all, and then maybe approach your friends to ask them about it. Don't be on the defense, and they'll be much more likely to not attack / overreact. Be openminded... say something like "listen, I feel like you guys are unhappy with me lately, is there something I did to upset?" Then LISTEN.... if this gets you no where, then take a step back and evaluate these friendships and why they aren't being supportive of you.
2006-11-27 04:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by redsoxbebe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they think your doing drugs or drinking proably thinking your having sex.
Rumors have been proably spreaded about you by this person you were hanging with. thats the only way friends would treat you that way something must of been said about you.
Findout what it is if you can but dont hang with jack no more. Not cool at all your gonna get labeled even if you werent doing anything just because you hang wit that guy.
2006-11-27 12:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friends are trying to ignore you because you are smoking and drinking and hanging out with the wrong people. My friends did that to me when I was in highschool and it sucked! I started hanging out with the wrong people and I got in trouble and my friends never understood why and they just stopped being my friend. I eventually realized what was going on and stopped hanging out with the wrong crowd. We all became friends again and I still hang out with them today! As for the people I was hanging out with that were 'rebels' , they are totally into drugs and are losers!
2006-11-27 12:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by KrisJH24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... How long have you been hanging out with jack???
He doesn't sound like a good person to be around,
i think it is you who have changed and not your friends, the one who asked you if you are hanging out with jack sounds like a good friend, she is probably worried about you...
My advise for you, drop jack...
I can only hope that you will take what i said as friendly advice and not scorn...
2006-11-27 12:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not special in any way whatsoever. Kill yourself or get over it. Everyone feels like that at one time or another
2006-11-27 12:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by DarthInvader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this same exact sh*t use to happen to me! only it stopped after 6th or 7th grade my 'friends' use to talk behind my back and stop being my friends for no reason, its not u its definatly them ur their target just try and make other friends or talk to someone about it
2006-11-27 12:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing what you are doing..stop hanging with the wrong crowd and concentrate on your schooling
2006-11-27 12:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋