2006-11-27 04:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by Dennis S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now first hand experience comes to play.. Been married for two years and my mother-in-law was dead set on splitting me and my wife. Shes manipulative, cunning, and skates the fine line between making me angry & walking away clean as fresh white tee. It got so bad my job became effected ulitmately to lose the position I held. My marriage on the rocks because of all stress in my home and @ work. But I worked with my wife to keep her moms outta our business, marriage, LIFE... Now we are recovering just fine but it takes two to deal with family. They are the ones that can make everything seem alright or tear your home down. Its a dangerous area; so yes they can cause family break-ups and love still be there. But its a matter of how strong is the love.
2006-11-30 07:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when love is not really true, then little things will interfere as in this case. If the love were deeply set, then come hell or high water, nothing would be able to interfere. Not even family. Could be only an excuse was needed to break it off with you.
2006-11-27 04:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your exact situation is. What family is breaking you up - her extended family? If so, that is absolutely possible. For some people their family of origin is everything. They will do anything to keep unity with their parents, siblings, aunts, uncles and grandparents. The spouse has to find a way to fit in with the existing framework. Other people will make their spouse the top priority and will even break with their families of origin if they have to.
2006-11-27 04:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if a family member thinks or finds out that you have done them wrong I wouldn't be surprised.
The Old saying Blood is thicker than water.
2006-11-27 04:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is truly in love with you I would think that no matter what any family member said they would come to you and find out for themselves if "rumors" were true.
2006-11-27 04:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My expensive, a guy or woman can love different different individuals in an entire life. Love isn't something yet chemistry and hormones. Love is in many circumstances additionally an incredible portion of lust and actual charm. you could not ascertain that those different ladies could have not been stable better halves to you. As you're nevertheless youthful, it could even ensue which you will adore in many circumstances. it extremely is my have self belief that each guy or woman has in basic terms one soul mate of their life. a guy or woman that completes him/her. some individuals are fortunate and are able to looking their soul mate yet others on no account will. We meet a guy or woman, love them and perchance marry them besides the undeniable fact that it does not recommend that they are our soul pals. actually you will say now that your spouse is your soul mate yet that's in basic terms actual if she completes you in each way. otherwise, be open to love. Even you do not elect to cheat on your spouse. the sensation of loving somebody and being enjoyed is between the sweetest emotions that god has given us.
2016-12-29 13:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by putz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that is possible. As sad and unreasonable as it may seem, families often times have a VERY strong hold over us. If her entire family was against the relationship, I can see her leaving someone she actually loved to please her family.
2006-11-27 04:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, just shows you the value that they put on their family and their opinion. it may drive a wedge between them and their family but it still is a fact that the family broke you up. it will not lessen the hurt.
you might explore the reasons for the family's objections and learn.
2006-11-27 04:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by ellisd1950 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats about what happend to me. My family saw something in the girl they didnt like. Gave me a choice my house or her. Totally resonable.
2006-11-27 04:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. People who are married 30 yrs break up. It doesn't mean they don't love you, it means you've just grown apart.
2006-11-27 04:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋