Have any of you left your true love because the only life you would have with them is a poor life?? If so, who did you end up spending the rest of your life with? Do you regret it, or stand by it?
2006-11-27 03:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try it a Little bit more and then decide later
:> peace
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2006-11-30 15:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between 'poor' because you can't have tons of material possessions, and 'poor' because he doesnt have drive, a stable job, or any thing like that.
I loved someone very much and left him when we were 24 because he was working part-time and making very little money. He had no desire to go out and get a full-time job, or to finish school. I was moving forward and he wasn't. That's why I left. I still loved him, but his lack of drive bothered me.
Now, if he at least had goals and dreams, that would have been different. But he lived in his parents' basement and wasn't doing much with his life.
My fiance now is working full-time and in school. We have some burden of debt, but I know we'll always be OK because we're both hard workers.
There is a difference between a hard worker and a lazy person. Someone who works hard but doesn't make much money has the world ahead of him/her, the person that doesn't do anything about his/her situation is just...sad.
2006-11-27 11:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by snowbunnygirl1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Things change and regardless of how much money you make, it will always be an issue. Couples that struggle financially will probably find things more difficult, but it doesn't mean that they can't make it work. Love pulls people though a lot more than you think. Especially if you're young, money will not always be tight. Unless you both work at the local Wal-Mart and your future aspirations are to be head cashier, the money will get better. But if you leave your guy simply because he's not making lots of cash, then you will definitely regret it in the future, because money can not buy you happiness.
2006-11-27 11:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i married my true love and we struggle financially more than you can imagine. However, we have gone thru it together and our love only got stronger. We are happy even tho we dont have some things some people take for granted. but if you give up on true love, and never find another, where does that leave you. there are many rich people on medication for depression. why do you think that is. also, you may not be poor forever, if you have something to work for. you would regret it if you met with him/her later and they were well off right? you would also deserve it.
2006-11-27 11:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by gabbytup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a guy and I feel that we are poor. We make just above any guidelines to qualify for any assistance. If it is true love, it will work out. But if it's not, you will regret it. You're life will end up the way you let it.
2006-11-27 11:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have.
You must NEVER regret the things you do in life, this path you are on just keeps getting better. You have no clue to the people you are going to meet. Just have fun with it.
Get an education so you can look after yourself. Never look to someone else for happiness because you will always be disappointed, you must have the happiness inside of you.
2006-11-27 11:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Prissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by poor, if you mean "poor" in the sense not good yes I have. My ex was an alchoholic so I gave up on him but I left him for a financially les well off man with whom I have a better life.
2006-11-27 11:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Stacye S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I have refused many times
some of my cousins and friends got married and now living a poor life but not that pooooooor!
and trust me all they say these days life is important more than love!
2006-11-27 12:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left a rich guy for a poor one. But then we broke up.
So now i am single free and disengaged and i am loving it.
For the record however. Leaving someone because i will have a poor futre with them is shallow and it is beneath me.
2006-11-27 11:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know what you mean by poor life if you mean money i would never leave anyone because they had no money especially my true love and if you mean poor life like bad relationship that means they were'nt my true love and no i always am the one getting hurt
2006-11-27 11:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few people can look back over their life and
say they were happy to have been poor....
Money makes for a much happier life...
2006-11-27 11:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋