How compatible is an Aries female (April 13) with a Virgo male (August 26)?

Answer 1

Virgo/Aries

Your Aries is an amazingly exciting lover! You are an earth sign, your lover is fire, and although these elements are not a classical astrological match, you both have so much to gain from making this relationship work. In many ways each of you has exactly what the other one lacks.

You both are very driven and ambitious so you agree: Work is important. Looking at your horoscope, I see that Aries' Sun falls in your house of other people's money and your Sun falls in Aries' house of work. Therefore, you understand each other's need to be recognized, and you both want to make money. Feeling successful and productive is a priority for both Virgo and Aries. You aren't likely to complain if your Aries is working too hard or too long, even though your beloved can get fairly self-absorbed. Your Aries will also let you work as hard as you like well into the night. In times of crisis, your lover depends on his or her resourcefulness, while you rely on your laser-sharp analysis of the situation.

Now when Virgos notice help is needed, they always pitch in and do what needs to be done -- one, two, three -- and they're gone, without any expectation of thanks. "Don't even think about it" Virgos will call over their shoulder, waving expressions of gratitude off with a casual gesture. But when Aries help out, they want a big show of appreciation. Remember that! Your Aries lover is full of enthusiasm and bright ideas, but is not good with details and organization. Those are your big strengths, so help your Aries. You are also practical, a quality, which could help your impractical lover, get things done. As you see, together you can be dynamite, especially if you work together on a project that involves money. So follow your Aries' lead and raise the stakes a little higher, Virgo.

"But this is love," you say. "What about the physical and emotional side of things?" Realize that you are true blue, Virgo, but Aries are on a continual quest for adventure, and your lover may feel the need to sow some wild oats earlier than you do. Needing to feel sexy and sought-after (as said above) is part of being an Aries, and if you are too busy to pay attention to your lover, he or she might be tempted to look for other opportunities. Aries need continual praise and reassurance. Morality, discretion, and strong ethics run deeply through your system, so Aries' play-the-field attitude could really grate on your nerves. This will be true even if realistically it is too early on in the relationship for you to have the right to be jealous. The good news is that once an Aries commits, he or she will start acting loyal and settled, and you'll calm down.

In the bedroom, you are amazingly compatible. Aries' Sun falls in your 8th house of your horoscope, which rules money and also sexual desire. Aries is full of fire and light; both male and female Aries are aggressive, funny and confident. If the Aries is female, she will know how bring out the true, erotic sensuality of your Virgo nature. If the Aries is male, the electricity will crackle like lightening between you. The Aries male is macho and powerful. Either way, Aries rules the pure energy of the life force. That alone can be bewitching when expressed by a member of either sex.

As a Virgo, you are idealistic and sentimental, although you don't reveal your feelings easily or often. You are a very private and reserved person, while your Aries is exuberant and outgoing. You will either find these differences are too much to take, or you'll enjoy the way Aries balances your quiet temperament. You see beauty in the smallest details, something that will perplex but also delight your lover. Hopefully, you can lend each other the best of your gifts and not let the differences disturb you.

Answer 2

When Aries and Virgo come together in a love match, they may think at first that they have nothing in common and nothing to learn from one another. This relationship takes time to develop as each partner must learn to understand where the other is coming from. Aries and Virgo can seem like total opposites: While Aries is brash, dominant and aggressive, always jumping into new things and almost always impatient, Virgo is detail-oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward long-term goals. Aries's energy is fiery and impetuous while Virgo's is much slower and more grounded. It's these very differences, however, that can teach Aries and Virgo so much, once they just look beneath one another's surfaces to see what lies beneath.

Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing but one another's faults. Virgo thinks Aries is way too brash, and Aries thinks Virgo is extremely fussy. But if they focus on one another's strengths instead, they'll discover a great deal. Aries teaches Virgo about fun and excitement, about the spontaneity that is often missing in Virgo's life. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail, the knowledge that the little things -- and moments -- are important too. Aries can teach their Virgo lover to take things less seriously. Virgo can teach Aries to be polite and value hard work.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. Aries wants to rush out and fight without wasting time preplanning or strategizing. Conversely, Virgo wants to analyze everything and work out all the details before acting. These are such opposite approaches that strife can result. Both Signs must make a conscious effort to learn from one another's method rather than letting their partner's natural rhythm bother to the point of distraction.

Aries is a Fire Sign and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Where Aries is all fiery impetuosity, Virgo is grounded practicality. Virgo weighs all the options before devoting any serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in! This is true both in career and in personal relationships -- which can be something of a stumbling block. If Aries has decided it's Virgo they want, they might be frustrated for some time to come, waiting for Virgo to make up their mind about whether the relationship is a good idea.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. Virgo doesn't need to be the leader or the boss; they're glad to follow another's suggestion once they decide it's a viable one. Aries, on the other hand, wants to make those suggestions -- every time. This is a beneficial dynamic if these two Signs are working as a team toward a common goal.

What's the best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship? Their great effectiveness as a team -- business or personal. Their personalities, opposite in so many ways, make for a highly complementary relationship.
I know its long but hey you asked. lol.

Answer 3

That's too much of a coincidence! I'm an Aries female, born on April 13, and I have dated a Virgo male, born August 27, which is just a day off. From personal experience, and since we were both classic examples of our own signs, it was very rough. We had broken up some time back, and don't talk to each other, sadly. Plus, I have hung around Virgo men plenty of times before and after to sort of pick up their personalities. I have nothing against Virgo men, though. I find them attractive, though these two signs have a difficult time communicating with one another every once in a while. They have high highs, and very low lows. They are also opposite signs, which gives them the ability to see each other's faults and positive traits very well, probably more clearly than other signs could see their's. Here's a reading of their potential match, and I'll give you other sites in the Source section for you to check if you like.

Virgo and Aries:

The Virgo native is a thinking individual who lives more cerebrally than physically. The Aries native is an action packed go-getter who dislikes spending too much time standing in the same place...after all, there are worlds to be conquered. If this pair can develop mutual hobbies and habits, then there will be common ground on which to base a relationship but lacking this type of sharing would eventually make life unbearable for both partners. Indeed, this relationship could deteriorate to the point where, instead of listening to each other, both would be trapped in an endless round of putting down the other's suggestions and ideas for improving the situation. If this tendency is not recognized and checked early, there will be little chance of surviving the personality clashes and before long, there will be a parting of the ways with each partner branching off in a different direction. Virgo individuals are caring souls, willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of others and Aries should not grow impatient with this trait since there is no other Sign of the Zodiac better equipped to take care of those in ill health as is the Virgo subject. In the romantic arena, Virgo will probably be too ready to please the Aries partner, going along with all of his or her suggestions. However, Aries may feel that Virgo should on occasion display his or her own incentive. If this does not happen, then the Aries partner is bound to become restless. The bossy Aries native is not likely to take Virgo's criticisms kindly, even if they are well intended. Indeed, any form of criticism is prone to undermine the Aries sense of discovery and throw him or her into depression. This match could succeed, but only if much effort is employed by both individuals.

Initially, these two may think they have nothing to learn from each other and development of the relationship will take time. In many ways, these individuals are total opposites. Aries is brash, dominant and aggressive, constantly jumping into new experiences and almost always impatient. Virgo is extremely detail-oriented, quiet and even shy, working patiently toward long-term goals. The energy associated with Aries is fiery and impetuous, while the energy associated with Virgo is far slower and more grounded. Still, it is these differences that can teach Aries and Virgo so much...if each will only look beneath the other's surface. Early in the relationship, these two may be able to see nothing but each other's faults. The Virgo partner will probably consider Aries too much of a daredevil be far too brash and the Aries partner will regard Virgo as way too fussy. However, if each focuses on the strengths of the other, the will discover a great deal. Aries can teach Virgo about fun and excitement...Virgo can teach Aries how to be patient and attend to details, coupled with the knowledge that little things...and moments...are also important. In addition, Aries can show Virgo how to take things less seriously and Virgo can instruct Aries on politeness and the value of hard work.

Virgo is ruled by the planet Mercury and Aries is ruled by the planet Mars. The Aries native wants to rush out and fight without wasting any time on preparation or strategy. Conversely, the Virgo native wants to analyze everything ahead of time and work out all the details before taking action. Such opposite approaches can result in strife and this pair must make a conscious effort to learn the other's methods rather than allowing the other's natural rhythm to create discord and distraction. Virgo is governed by the element of Earth while Aries is governed by the element of Fire. Thus, where the Aries native will be driven by fiery impetuosity, the Virgo native will be grounded and practical. By nature, Virgo weighs all the options prior to devoting any serious effort, while Aries simply sees what he or she wants and immediately dives in the deep end. This is true in both career and personal relationships, which can prove to be something of a stumbling block. If the Aries native has decided that he or she wants a relationship with Virgo, frustration could reign for quite some time while the Virgo native makes up his or her mind regarding whether this will be a good idea. Virgo is mutable in quality while Aries is Cardinal. Thus, the Virgo partner will harbor no desire to be leader or boss...he or she will be perfectly content to follow all of the suggestions made by Aries. On the other hand, the Aries partner will definitely want to make those suggestions...every time and all the time. This can be a beneficial dynamic if the pair are working as a team toward a common goal. In short, these two are very effective in a team situation, be it business or personal. The inherent characteristics of both, opposite in so many ways, can make for a highly complementary relationship.

In essence, this combination may prove to be a little difficult. Generally, Virgo is too fault-finding and precise for the Aries personality. Where the Virgo partner will be logical and analytical, the Aries partner will be impatient. This is a match that can succeed...and could well be dynamic...provided the two are prepared to work together, but it will be a constant challenge. Longevitiy can only be attained if Aries allows his or her Virgo partner to have sufficient space.

Best of wishes!

Answer 4

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