2006-11-27 03:36:00 · 15 answers · asked by redneck woman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
record him, that way you will have a proof
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2006-11-30 15:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if your Husband was to file for a divorce,and you contested it.(in other words you do not agree with your Hus. that this marriage should be dissolved in divorce)your Hus. could not divorce you unless or en till you have been legally separated for a period up to six months to one year.But if he was to be able to prove that you abandoned the marriage,the judge would probe consider letting your Hus. have a uncontested divorce(in other words you could not stop your husband from being granted a divorce within 30 day's to 6 mo.'s.That is the only thing I know of that he might could use against you.If you leave protect yourself by getting legally separated for other reason's also.financial,Federal and IRS reason's,insurance,etc.etc.Being legally separated does not mean you are filing for a divorce you could have a year or more be four deciding on a divorce or not.GOOD LUCK. on another note all together it isn't like he is a child,if there is children involved though,please think of the children,and let him hurt you so much that you would abandon your children.
2006-11-27 04:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is obviously more to the story and without a good idea of what is involved it is difficult to give any advice. You should call a lawyer or talk to your clergyman or a counselor - if children are involved call child protective services to find out about your rights and what options you may have. Never think just because you are unemployed or don't make enough money you need to leave your kids - ask for help their are many services available to you. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 03:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where you live. It's best not to leave because it can be seen as abandonment and it can't be proved that he told you to leave unless you get it in writing. Go to an attorney. A lot of them give a free consultation. Or call your local bar association.
2006-11-27 03:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by cather2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex walked out me and the kids...I tried to file abandonment charges against him...but, the judge pretty much told me ish happens. You can try it and see what happens, but now a days spouses walking out is the norm.
Best of luck...
2006-11-27 03:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by passionfruit2571 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's attempting to Bluff you into returning, do not pay attention to him. document for Divorce and quit all verbal replace with him! If there are any marital sources that have been offered in the time of it sluggish mutually then they could desire to be divided the two, yet don't be unreasonable or vengeful. He has NO Grounds for an Abandonment fee, so forget approximately that. think of of your newborn first and maximum stunning, his protection and well-being is the main necessary factor.
2016-12-29 13:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wondered what the answer to that was myself. If he's already made you leave, you need to contact a lawyer and fight this. Your husband sounds like he may be a control freak. If you are gone, he only has the kids to control and you can't let him win.
2006-11-27 03:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have kids take them with you. Dont leave them or you could be charged.
2006-11-27 03:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sandie/Patrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..get everything done legally to spare yourself a major headache in the future...he can always lie and say that you left on your own and then it'll be his word against yours.
2006-11-27 03:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would have just said fine. Hopped in the truck, hooked up the trailer and drove off with him still in it.
2006-11-27 03:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES TAKE THE KIDS OTHERWISE HE COULD HAVE YOU CHARGED WITH ABANDONMENT!
2006-11-27 03:42:41 · answer #11 · answered by bookworm1171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋