letting everyone else take care of them?
2006-11-27 03:32:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes,my Brother in law is a royal pain in the azz..everyone else enables him to be dependent so its their faults for doing so..what idiots!
2006-11-27 03:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Haggy~Naggy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My brother who is 21. I am a year or so younger than him, and do more REAL work in a week then he does in a couple months. Honestly. And what really makes me crazy is that my pops provides him with a new Lincoln pick up, he has a new Polaris snowmobile, a nice four wheeler, place to live, while him and dad figure out what business they will go into. Makes me crazy sometimes.
2006-11-28 12:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by dukes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I do have adult family members who let everyone else raise their kids for them because they're to preoccupied with their own life and can't be bothered. I don't agree with it, but that's the way it is.
2006-11-27 11:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Maybe a little. My brother is sort of like that but he does a lot for others but what he asks of others is ridiculous. You know like you could both be in the same room with the same vantage point of a clock and he'll still ask "what time is it" and if you point to the clock he'll get pissed.
But I don't think we have any one person in the family who takes and takes and gives back nothing. We all have our ups and downs. Sometimes we need a little more from others for a while to get through a rough patch but no one who is totally dependant and expectant of the royal treatment.
2006-11-27 11:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Naw, everyone seems to be very indepedent. Not good, though we're stand-offish and don't hang with each other. I can't tell you the last time we went together as siblings on a trip, i.e. church retreat, football game or something of that nature. We, well never mind.......
2006-11-27 11:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be the family care giver - trying to support and encourage and console when life was upside down for them - after awhile i began to see the toll it was taking on me and im deep in therapy for it -
2006-11-27 12:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are a few grown men that seem to think that others have to take care of, it is embarassing to have relatives like that. :(
2006-11-27 12:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, do you want a list? I'll even give names and addresses if you want to take over!
2006-11-27 13:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my aunts. It gets old after doing it for my whole life and it seems the world revolves around her and not me, my mom ,or my grandmother. She always needs the world most expensive gift on her bday and christmas.
I and my mom or gmal can afford that stuff.
2006-11-27 11:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Yes I do. He is sick, and his mama is old and he NEVER ever ever ever did anything with his life. It's sad and he cries a lot. Sorrowful for not becoming anything.
2006-11-27 11:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by GO NAVY! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋