.........I just posted the question of whether my boyfriend will propose....I have to say that I did ask him to marry me about one year aga and he said yes. About a year after that we were in the mall and I wanted to just look at some rings....just to look around. That was a five minute stop that turned into about 30minutes of looking and talking to a salesman and sizing my finger. Now I have to say that I initiated the 'ok let's go' b/c I know how nervous men get about things, but he wanted us to look and talk to the salesperson there. So what do you take of that? Help? But he has not asked yet? What do you guys think?
2006-11-27 03:23:17 · 8 answers · asked by Baby J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are too young to get married if you have to ask the question here!
2006-11-27 03:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he spend that long of a time in the store with you talking to the salesman and sizing your finger, he is probably getting an idea on what you want (engagement ring), since there are so many out there. I am sure he will ask you soon, but remember, rings are expensive, so he might be saving his money so he can buy you the perfect ring. I would give him another year or so, before asking him why he has not proposed yet. You two seem like you both want to marry, but it might take some time because of the financial cost
2006-11-27 03:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't be spending time looking at rings, sizing your finger, and talking to a salesperson if he wasn't "considering" marriage. Just wait for the ring, but I wouldn't bring up the marriage topic again. If this all happened the way you are explaining it he should be bringing up the topic very soon!
Good luck!
2006-11-27 03:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by tranquil1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start to talk about dates when you want to get married. who should be in the wedding party,( eg: Do you think ______ would be a good maid of honor or should it be _____) How big or small do want to it to be. There is a lot of planning that goes into a wedding start talking about ideas of what the 2 of you want. Maybe you want to elope ( I did ) After all he did say yes so I think it is safe to say that he wants to marry you. He may be waiting until Christmas to give you a ring after all you did get sized.
congrats and good luck.
2006-11-27 03:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "I did ask him to marry me" and also, "He has not asked yet." If you asked, and he said yes, why does he need to ask? The question has already been answered. You are engaged. Time to move the planning for the wedding along.
2006-11-27 03:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked him and he said YES....why does he need to ask?
He probably has NO idea that you are waiting on him to ask you. You have to be very specific with men.....they tend to be clueless about these things. Good luck!
2006-11-27 03:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is around the corner. If he is going to spend THOUSANDS he isn't going to want to get another gift. What can I say guys are cheap!!!But the holidays are so romantic so good luck....
2006-11-27 03:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by hero2allbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋