How did it go, or should i say how is it going? I have a trust issue with her, but we are gonna give it our best, we have 2 children together. I really think it may work this time, we have learned alot during this past year about each other.
2006-11-27 03:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can work if you really want it to. You should try to resolve all of your trust issues before you give it another shot. You have to have complete trust and honestly in a relationship to really be happy.
Good luck to you
2006-11-27 03:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I did. We have been back together for 17 years. The last child graduates h.s this year. It has not been good for me. I never cheated, but have been cheated on. I will soon be 60. I am too old to try and start again. The Children are stable and grown. I wonder if I could have had a happy life had I divorced. I think I made the wrong decision-but I will never really know. At least it could not have been worse. Your case may be different than mine. But if you have trust issues-you will always have them. If you never cheated on her-I would think about it for a long time before I committed to remarriage. Misery really sucks. If I had not known Jesus as my personal savior- I could not have made it, I would have pulled the trigger long ago.
Either way, my best advice is to tell you to seek the Lord. Allow Him into your life. If things don't turn out good (either way), at least you will have a safety net. Actually the only real joy I experience is worship. It is great when you are in the right frame of mind.
Good luck pal, I hope I did not mislead you.
2006-11-27 03:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Desperado 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have a trust issue with this person, then you shouldn't even think about taking her back. You need to remember what seperated you to begin with and realize it will be the same reason to end it this time. Please don't think for one moment that your children will be better off with both parents. You could do more damage than you know by getting back together. I don't know you but if there was an issue of trust, you need to keep that in mind and save yourself a lot of time and grief. Good luck and GOD bless you.
2006-11-27 05:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've tried that, but it didn't work out for me. It seems like we both thought that he was going to make some serious changes in his life and he wasn't able to do that. I ended up leaving him again for the same reason that I divorced him in the first place. If trusting your wife or girlfriend is an issue in your relationship, I'd say that it's probably not very stable in the first place. If you're not able to trust her things will end up just as bad, if not worse off, than they were when you seperated the first time, in my opinion.
2006-11-27 03:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kristal Y 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your x wife sounds just like my husbands first wife. he did the same thing your wanting to do---he married her a second time.
no change from her just like the first time she cheated again in the second marriage. worst part is this time the child support doubled from the first time sooooooo be careful and look for a trick here.
2006-11-27 08:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by lake living 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a great story my inlaws were divorced for twenty three years they got remarried last year and it is going great. I must add they both have Eternal Life.
2006-11-27 03:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by eternallifer1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOOOOOOOO!!!!!! Don't Do this!!!!! You divorced each other for some reason, it WILL happen again!!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 03:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋