this is a repeat from earlier..?

Question

Big deal or not?
FIRST OF ALL ME AND MY BOYFRIEND OF 3 YRS ARE HAVING MAJOR PROBLEMS HE MIGHT BE LEAVING AFTER THE HOLIDAYS( THE REASON HES STAYING IS BECAUSE WE HAVE A BABY) HES SAID THAT MY JEALOUSY GOT IN THE WAY OF THE RELATIONSHIP, WE HAD FUTURE PLAN W/ EACHOTHER HE SAYS HE CANT SEE MY AS A WIFE ANYMORE, I FOUND THIS AS A WAKE UP CALL(YEA I KNOW BARELY) SO IM TRYING TO CHANGE HE SAYS IT DOESNT MATTER ANYMORE....NOW TO MY POINT LAST NIGHT I TRIED TO TALK TO HIM IN BED AND HE CALLED ME ANOTHER NAME WHICH IS ALSO HIS SISTERS NAME BUT ALSO 2 OTHER GIRLS THAT IVE DOUBTED BEFORE....MY HEART IS ALREADY BROKEN...IM STILL YOUNG I KNOW THAT LIFE WILL GO ON BUT I DO LOVE HIM SO CAN SOME ONE PLZ GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.. (NO MEAN COMMENTS PLZ)

Answer 1

LET HIM GO...........CHANGE YOUR WAYS....DEAL WITH JEALOUSY, FIND OUT WHY YOUR SO INSECURE. FOCUS ON YOU AND BABY. IF YOU CHANGE HE'LL NOTICE!!

Answer 2

Ya'll have a baby together. Neither of you should be concerned about anything except what is best for your baby. And that means that mommy and daddy are there for them and raise them together unless there is any kind of abuse going on. I suggest you get counseling and get it quick. Once you have a child, your main goal in life should be to make sure they are raised right. And all children do need a mother and a father. One parent cannot play both roles, it is genetically impossible. Counseling really does work when you find the right person.

Answer 3

Well if he says that your jelousy got in the way then try not to be so jelous. When he called you another name maybe it was his sister he thought you were. Cause sometimes when I look back on my past or somebody says something that is familiar I think it was that person I was thinking about. So explain to him that you were just jelous because...... Tell him why. Wish I could be more help.