the other day i was out with my boyfriend and this girl called me ugly. my boyfriend knows how i feel about things like that and to have it happen in front of him... i don't know what he was thinking at the time but was probably embaressed anyway i do have alot of friends and all that but i wish i had the money to get surgery. because my nose was broken when i was younger and no one realized until years later and my jaw sticks out a little to far and then i'm also black so ppl say i look like a monkey anyway if u wanna see this freakshow ask but do u know anyway to earn extra money easily i NEED surgery!
2006-11-27 02:39:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
would you have a boyfriend if you're as ugly as you think you are? She's just a *****, she wants to feel better about herself so she lashes out to you.
2006-11-27 02:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Emanuel T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt feel that way about yourself. God made everybody the way that he thought that they should be. Everybody has something about themselves that they dont find attractive. Even the most beautifulest person. You said that your nose was broken when you were younger. At least you can have something done about that, but there are alot of people out there that no matter what kind of surgery that they have it want make a difference. Have you thought about that the person that made that comment to you was jealous or something like that. You continue to hold your head up and dont let nobody make you feel less about yourself. You will find so many evil people out there that just want to tear you down and make you feel bad. Just dont show them that they have succeeded in doing that. You asked if there was a way that you could earn extra money for your surgery. Do you have a job or are you still in school? What about signing up for one of those makeover shows? For instance, The Tyra Banks show has makeover show. Send in a very good well thought out letter letting her show know about your feelings and insecurities and see what happens. It want hurt to try. If you were so ugly like you put it I dont think that you would have a boyfriend. Also ask him what he sees in you. I think that you will be so surprised by the answers that you get. You are probably not as bad looking as you may think. Good Luck, and remember to keep your head up. You have to love yourself before you can love somebody else.
2006-11-27 03:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by witsend 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were an ugly person, you would not have a boyfriend who cares about you. Anyone who feels the need to focus on some physical characteristics is the ugly one.
2006-11-27 03:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i could feel sorry for all those ugly people who have insulted you, but I can't, they are too ugly on the inside.
Please don't call yourself a freak show, I'm sure your boyfriend doesn't see you in that light. If you are so concerned about your appearance is it possible to see a doctor to discuss your concerns, in the U.K. it is difficult but possible to see someone who can help.
Wish you well mate.
2006-11-27 02:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Paulo.GZ. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one if you were so ugly than you wouldn't have a boyfriend
and for another people only call other people when they are jealous, do you really think bullies would waste their time calling ugly people. They do it to make themselves feel better because their insecure too.
2006-11-27 03:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by cinders162002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are @r$eholes who need to hurt others to make themselves feel better.
We have to believe that there is karma and they will get what's coming to them in this world or the next.
Luck
2006-11-27 03:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
and you have a boyfriend; you can't be that ugly if dude walks down the street with you.
2006-11-27 02:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋