I was having sex with my husband last night and I am pregnant. I was scared when he started getting rough that the baby was going to get hurt. It did not feel right to be having sex while my baby is inside of me. also at which month should we stop having sex.
2006-11-27 02:23:27 · 22 answers · asked by halee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am 3 months.
I have had 1 miscarriage in the past.
2006-11-27 02:25:03 · update #1
Its ok to have sex while your pregnant but i wouldn't let him get too rough,if it bothers you just explain that to him & tell him you dont want to have sex until after your baby is born! As for when to stop it kind of depends on you if it hurts or feels uncomforatable then u need to stop i didnt have sex after my 6th month with either of my children,but that's just me.If you still have concerns about this you should talk to your doctor about it,he could really ease your mind.I have added a link that talks about sex during pregnancy it may help you.
2006-11-27 02:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with your husband throughout your entire pregnancy is perfectly fine as long as your doctor approves and you feel up to it. There is little that you can do to cause a miscarriage. Most miscarriages occur because the baby is not developing properly. An injury that is severe or traumatic to the mother may cause a miscarriage. However, your baby is very well protected and safe inside your uterus surrounded by the amniotic fluid. Rough sex will probably not be comfortable for you but will not likely cause any damage to your baby. There is no need to stop having sex at a particular month. As you get further along, you and your husband may need to be a little creative in positions as the more usual ones are very uncomfortable. Do not loose that closeness with your husband, your baby will not know when you are having sex when you are pregnant so there is no reason not to have sex.
2006-11-27 10:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most doctors say to stop around the 7th month, but it is individual to you and your body. You should know, the amniotic sac protects your baby from everything inside the uterus. You and your husband having sex can't hurt the baby, and you don't need to worry about that anymore. As for you feeling uncomfortable, if you don't want to do it, don't. There are other ways to do things when you're pregnant. If you are physically uncomfortable, try new positions. Talk to your doctor and talk to your husband.
2006-11-27 10:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex while pregnant is good as along as you are having a normal healthy pregnancy. I would avoid man on top positiions because you shouldn't be on your back for an extended period of time. It's not good for you or your baby. They say you can have sex right up until labor. However by that point, you don't really feel up to it. If there are complications, you need to talk to your doctor about it. He/She will be able to help. Also, if you ever have a concern about your pregnancy, call your doctor. They'd rather hear a paranoid new mommy than a mommy in danger.
2006-11-27 10:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant does not mean that you can't have sex unless you have problems and the doctor instructs you not to. For the most part you can have sex almost up until the baby is born if you don't get too rough.
2006-11-27 10:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex until it is no longer comfortable for you. However, if you are concerned about your husband being rough, talk to him and tell him you prefer that you guys go gentle until the baby is born. Having sex while pregnant is jsut fine and you can obviously find other positions to make it more comfortable once your belly gets big.
2006-11-27 10:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally, sex is absolutley fine during pregnancy. Since you have had one miscarriage, i would take it easy, just, no rough sex. Take is easy and sex should still be fine. Talk to your dr about your concerns. If all is goin well with the pregnancy than sex should not be a problem. Good luck!
2006-11-27 10:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your doctor has told you not to have sex, then you are perfectly fine to continue to do so. your husband is not going to hurt the baby. The baby is VERY well protected in it's gestational sac. Your cervix and mucus plug also help to keep your baby protected! If you are concerned ask your doctor... but mine told me since we are having no problems, that we can continue to have sex until the minute I go into labor.
2006-11-27 10:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex while pregnant is okay up to the third trimester I believe, or somewhere close to that range. But yeah, it's best not to be rough. Your husband won't jab the baby, but hard pumping actions might shake the fetus around too much.
2006-11-27 10:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by Low Key 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alot of women and their partners get nervous about sex during pregnancy I wouldnt worry about it the baby is well protected by the amniotic sac and the barrier between the mucus plug. I dont think there is any month when you should stop having sex unless you just dont want to.
2006-11-27 10:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by raechelblueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋