there is this guy that i hear all of these bad things about. no one knows that we are like we are...he told me he loved me...well put it this way we are more or less dating but not saying it...and we dont tell anyone...
its just i hear that he messes with these girls and when he says he loves me i want it to be true but how can i make sure...
you guys i love him SO MUCH! he is my first true love but how do i know that he means what he says. he said he would never lie to me...i just want those words to mean something to him ...like they do to me...i mean it when i say it but does he?
2006-11-27 02:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look at his actions. If he treats you with respect and dignity then he is telling the truth. If he is messing around with anyone else he is lying.
Who are you hearing the rumours from? Are they trustworthy? If you are dating but not telling anyone that would seem to me to be a problem. If he loves you he will want everyone to know.--he wouldn't want other guys trying to get you. If he doens't want the relationship to be public knowledge than I would assume those rumours may have some validity.
Move on to a guy who will shout his love from the rooftops and treat you well.
2006-11-27 02:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all love waits, lust doesnt. So if hes unwilling to wait to get naked with you then he doesnt love you.
Love is an action word and actions speak louder than words. Have patience and wait! In time true love shows itself to be true you dont have to figure it out whether its true or not.
Him saying "I love you" in the kind of days we're in means nothing unless theres action over a long period of time to prove it.
2006-11-27 10:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by misterb_1972 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and him need to have a long talk.He has a bad rep already, and sometimes with guys like that it's hard to trust them. You really can't be sure if he loves you or not. But maybe if your having doubts with him, you just need to lay off for a while, and think about everything. But before you do anything you need to talk to him.
2006-11-27 10:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by fashiondivine01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good tip: when a man love a women he will do everything for her if he can. give him a test of some kind. tell him to stop doing something that he likes jest for about a week. if he go more then 4 days then he love you
2006-11-27 11:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Pharaoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the answers are good
ifyou believe in God pray he will find a way to let you know
otherwise if there are rumors there is usually fire
love has to proven and earned just like respect watch and listen good luck
2006-11-27 10:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Patti B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can always tell wether ure guy loves u or not if u feel that he aint been serious u cant tell by the way he treats u.
2006-11-27 11:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Angelica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to feel it when he says it. You heart should feel like its skipping a beat. If you are truely in love with someone....they should be able to make you feel like nobody else has before!!
2006-11-27 10:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you grow up a little, you will know for sure.
2006-11-27 10:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋