I've had a fight with my best friend and I don't see us ever being friends again. I'm fine with this, but she has decided to take it further by threatening to hit me outside of school. She is alot bigger than me and I know she will not hesitate to knock my block off. I've told her that I will call the cops if she touches me and she doesn't care. I've also told my mother and she won't do anything until after i've been hit. How to I avoid getting hit without showing weakness?
2006-11-27 01:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by xxxxxx_bec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your doing fine on your own so far.. and if she does hit you, then make that call.. keep a buddy with you at all times.. that way you will have a witness 2 her assult.. i had 2 fight a bully, much bigger then i.. it worked out great.. the bigger they are, the harder they fall.. and i'm sure she hung her head in shame on the next school day.. i did leave her bleeding and i say that with pride.. take lessons in self defence.. it's the only way 2 survive : )
2006-11-27 01:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, i am going to tell you what to do Bec, !!
If she comes up to you, outside school... I want you to make a fist,, and hit her as hard as you can right in the Nose!!!! just 1 time is all it will take.... I promise you.. dont be scared,,,, pop her ,, right when she least expects it.... usually when they first walk up, dont even hesitate... Pow,,, right in the Nose as hard as you can,, and then pop her some more,, she will and no others will ever bother you again..... Trust me on this!!!
Good luck... and let me know what happens......
2006-11-27 09:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Show no fear, when you walk past her in the hall make eye contact and smile, BUT keep your head up and look unaffected by her...Bullies thrive on reaction so dont give her one, if you do feel threatned then go ahead and pop her one in the mug outside of school of course, but make it a good one so she doesnt get up right away...most bullies are all talk and no action anyway, never show her you are afraid. If she knows you are scared of her she will keep getting off on this. Its ok to be scared but dont show it, like I said, eye contact and a smile is all you need to do....
2006-11-27 09:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by rufnready 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom is trying to tell you that you shouldn't be a weakling. As a guy, I want to tow the same line of thought. Get something clear; you don't need a huge size to fight well but a good tactics. The earlier you free yourself from this "Goliath" the better for you. Please think about this. Goodluck and cheers!
2006-11-27 10:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to her first, Get a handful of chewing gum and come from behind and push it into her hair, then throw a cupful of vinegar over her! Scream at her if she f.ucks with you again you will be forced to show her who is boss once more.
2006-11-27 09:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by druboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to her. She will care once the police arrive, just a bunch of talk. Try and talk in a peaceful way.
2006-11-27 09:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fred G. Sanford 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Call your ex-friend and offer to meet her in a public place like a library to see if you can resolve your issues calmly.
2006-11-27 09:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was u try and talk to her. If she don't want to then try and have some of your other friends to try and calm her down. And if she's like that then u don't really need to have a friend like that. Good Luck!!
2006-11-27 09:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to calm her down by calling her and if she is still behaving the same way try blackmail her by calling her or sending her messages like a stranger.She would get scared and obviously then leave you alone.
2006-11-27 15:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell them that she is threating you, i would rather show my weakness then to get the heck knock out.
2006-11-27 09:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋