A few months back, me and my boyfriend (now ex) had intimate contact. Intimate contact as in he was on top of me but we were not having sex. Just being sort of romantic. We both had our clothes on and when I mean clothes, I mean full clothes. I'm sort of worried about it. I'm a teen and I know what we did was wrong. I realized my mistake and I regretted having done it. But, I can't shake off this uneasy feeling. I'm quite worried I might be pregnant. I know some of you will say how old are you and didn't you hear about the birds and the bees. Well, I live in Asia so in schools, we rarely have talks regarding sex and I'm not that clever either. Although, right after we had our intimate contact, I remembered rushing off to the toilet to check if my pants were wet to see if there were signs of any semen. It was only wet inside my panties, I guess I got excited. Any thoughts whether I might be pregnant?
2006-11-27 01:06:48 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There is only a very small chance you are pregnant. Have you had your period since this happened? You said it was a few months ago. My guess is that you are not pregnant, but hopefully this has taught you the lesson that if you're going to have unprotected sex, you'll have to go through this worry every time.
2006-11-27 01:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sperm in semen has to make contact with an egg from your ovaries for you to be pregnant. Sperm has a very short life outside the human body, it dies in low temperatures. It is like a fish and swims in your body fluids, clothes would soak up body fluids and the sperm could not move. It would be dead before it made it's way through your ex-boyfriends clothes and would have no chance to get throuh yours as well. Don't worry, you would not get pregnant if you both kept your clothes on.
Make your next boyfriend wear a condom and then you can enjoy yourself safely .
2006-11-27 09:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you are not pregnant. You were only excited. To prevent this from happening again forgive yourself and move on. Stay away from sex-related things (thoughts,blue films, gists or gissips, mastabation) the best way you can and make concecrations(i.e change your focus, replace immoral thoughts with good thoughts, act better than you feel, walk away, don't get intimate, study more about std's-get pictures of infected people, discourage yourself not to have sex outside marriage by weighing its side effects -HIV,infertility,unstability, etc.). By doing this, I assure you that your mind would be stronger to resist temptations of such kind and say "No" to unwanted friendships. If you are a christian pray, fast or see a minister(penticostal) for deliverance prayers. Don't worry, many teens go through worse situations. In your mind, try to replace "feeling sexy drives" with pure beauty and looking neat. Take care of yourself, enjoy life and love yourself. I'm sorry if my answer offends you in any way.
2006-11-29 17:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by good day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not, you were just worried. You only get pregnant if semen gets inside of your vagina. The only way you could have gotten pregnant from having all clothes on is if his pants were not that thick in material and he had an erection and he pre-ejaculated and it got into your clothes that were thin in material(if you had thick material there is no problem).
Getting pregnant can happen from pre-ejaculation or ejaculation. Always wear a condom if you ever get intimate!!! Even for anal because the semen can leak from the butt into the vagina! O_o;
2006-11-27 09:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sperm actually has to mix with the egg so you dont have anything to worry about. As long as no sperm went down your clothes or anything. I hope this kind of scared you though cause sex is a big deal and if you regret just making out and it has worried you this bad I would educate myself online b4 having anymore contact with guys.
2006-11-27 09:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Misty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are scared and thats okay ~ it will keep you from doing something you may regret later. I am the mother of 4 beautiful children and if things happened the way you said they did, I would say that you are probably not pregnant so stop worrying and don't do anything that you don't want to.
2006-11-27 09:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to know the facts of life before even getting intimate with your boyfriend! Sex is a big responsibility. You need only to start having intimate relations with someone when you understand what's going on. You cannot be preg if you were fully clothed.
2006-11-27 09:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly doubt you're pregnant! Plus you said this happened a few months ago, right? Have you had your period (menstral cycle) since the incident? If so, you're not pregnant! By now you also would have had symptoms such as weight gain, tiredness, sore breasts, and possibly morning sickness. If you think you're pregnant, take a test, but I don't think you are.
If you have sex in the future, PLEASE use a condom!
2006-11-27 09:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pregnant, but head to your local library and find a book that will explain the facts of life to you, ok? Try "Where Did I Come From" by Peter Mayle
P.S. I hope this isn't a scam yahoo.answer question from some creepy pedophile
2006-11-27 09:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have him inside of you for anything to happen so you have nothing to worry about. Even if he put his hands in your pants you will still be okay and you can have oral sex you be okay but if you let his Penis inside you make sure he has a condom on . Trust me as long as it happen as you side all of his clothing was On you are okay. Yes I think you where Excited.
2006-11-27 09:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋