This friend, who I am interested in pursuing a further relationship uses my office cell phone to call drug dealers, and when questioned she always is concerned with "Who told you?" Never answers the drug question. Acutally continually denies the use of drugs. I want to trust her, but I know what I know. Tell me how I can find out for sure. What signs should I look for. I want to catch her red handed or red nosed. I have very good sources, but I cannot divulge info with increminating them.
2006-11-27 00:27:19 · 15 answers · asked by ebdinwiddie 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
you have the signs already!
2006-11-27 00:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shakes, jittery, distracted easily, sniffs frequently or rubs her nose a lot. At times will appear lethargic and might be prone to outbursts of anger for even the slightest annoyances or what she perceives to be annoyances. Runs to the washroom feeling and/or looking ill but returns happy and energetic.
Is sharp with people...shows paranoid tendencies particular as in the incident you described about her phone useage.
Associating with those who do drugs isn't always necessarily a strong indication that she is doing them herself. She might have a very strong reason for NOT doing them and may have placed herself in a position in which she believes she just might stop someone from also doing them.
I have to contend tho that influences to use drugs might be a lot stronger than not to. Gauge her reactions and actions to determine if she is acting unlike herself and then go from there.
You are right in not wanting to become tied to this type of behavior...coke is a very strong substance that cannot be a one time thing in most cases.
Take care and good luck
2006-11-27 08:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Listen to me. Stay away from this girl. She's going to put you/your job/ your company in jeopardy. Something is telling you things aren't right, and they're not. You shouldn't have these kind of questions about someone you are serious about, because they just don't get better, the questions get bigger. She's using you and you'll be liable when the cops come.
Anyway, get your phone tapped, or put a "bug" in it and record everything that is going on. You could use the "history" of your phone and try to trace them, though not all can be. You could hire a private investigator. You could turn the numbers over to the cops and see what they say. Anyway good luck and I say RUN!
2006-11-27 08:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by HowlnWoof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it necessarily means she's a drug user. She might be the middleman in all this. But in whichever the case, do you really want to be involved in either situation? Don't let her use your phone anymore and find another love interest.
2006-11-27 08:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by LSSY724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just get away from her.. She sounds like trouble, and what proofs are you looking for. I think you know for sure already, you are not a policeman you do not need a hard evidence. If you face her with confidence she will definitely collapse. Don't simply ask doubfully.
2006-11-27 08:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run do not walk in the opposite direction. You do not need this! Why do you need to ketch her red handed?
She associates with these people, she calls them from your phone (which is strange why doesn't she use her own phone?). This in itself should tell you something.
Guilt by association, if the cops ever look at her they will look at you too.....You phone number is associated with these people too...
2006-11-27 08:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding, you know already. She is a druggie, get rid of her before you get dragged down with her. By using your phone they could charge you with facilitation of drug sales.
2006-11-27 08:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by pedohunter1488 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you already did catch her red handed.
2006-11-27 08:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you get a life!
Is she hurting you or anyone else with her life decision??? I think not!
Mind your own business, especially if you are wanting to pursue a relationship with her!
Get a grip man, its none of you business so just deal with it!
2006-11-27 08:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by druboy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
95% chance...quit loaning out your phone or the DEA might be knocking on your door trying to figure out how you fit in to all this !
2006-11-27 08:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
interested in self destruction? keep it up knucklehead. avoid it like the plague.
2006-11-27 08:29:42 · answer #11 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋