2006-11-27 00:18:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It may take a life time for some. It depends on the mental strength of a person. Time can heal the ugliest scars. But the memories will remain for ever.
2006-11-27 01:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question I asked myself several months ago. I once had a relationship before with a guy of different race for 4 years and 8 months but shattered on one fine day because he got married suddenly arranged by his parents. I was really desperate, discourage, hopeless, helpless in my life. I said to myself I will never love again and when will this broken heart heals? I know it will really take some time, you can not say months, or 1 year or two years, it depends upon your adjustment and acceptance. When I convinced myself to accept the real fact that he is gone from my life, I opened my eyes to reality that he will never come back to me. So after a year, I spoke with my ex-lover lately just to say hi, all the anger, hurtaches were gone, with no regrets or blaming at all. Then someone comes to my life again as special as my past love. Now only I've realized that I've accepted it already and the wound in my heart is healing and will scar. But really, there are times when I'm alone, I still ask myself, why did it happened, eventhough it's already a past. Anyways, it's because of the scar, the scar in my heart that was formed by my past and will never fade away since I have loved that person so much unconditionally and sincerely. It will always stay there forever even if I found another love of my life. So my new special someone really helps in healing the wound totally. It did to me. A smile comes back to my face and glow in my eyes. I never feel this happy again. Goodluck if you are now! Wound heals when the right time comes!
2006-11-27 21:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Iki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what exactly happened and on your personality, but in general a broken heart is broken and needs some time to heal. you have to think about the present and the future, not about the past.try to keep yourself busy- go out with friends, take up a hobby; if you don't feel like company, try reading or watching tv-or writing something, to let the pain go. keep your mind busy especially, but also try to do some physical work/ activity so that you get tired and sleep. seek the company of optimistic people.
it may take some time before you're healed, but when you suddenly find yourself looking around and SEEING reality with different eyes, you'll know it's over and you'll feel like starting life all over. it's a great feeling, especially if you suffered a lot. and then you will look around for somebody better.good luck and remember that life must go on, no matter what-it's your life!
2006-11-27 23:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Healing is an individual thing. It depends on how long you were together. What was done to you to cause the breakup. If you are the one breaking up and already have another person in your life, no time to heal . If you were the one that was wronged it is a terrible experience and takes time to sort thur all the bad and good. Turn to God and your friends to help you heal. Keep busy. I know I am working on it ever day.
2006-11-27 09:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies. If you honestly try to move on with your life and not dwell in the past, it will heal quicker. Emotional wounds often leave permanent scars. What I mean is once your heart has been broken you never forget it.
2006-11-27 08:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes as long as it takes,everyone is different,some people bounce back quicker and easier than others.
The circumstances also come into play,how was your heart broken etc.
If you feel your hearts been broken,let yourself heal with as much time as you need.
You cannot rush healing so just take your time and let things run their course
2006-11-27 08:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends but i think it will take a long time at least two or one year
for broken heart to heal it is very hard time.
2006-11-27 08:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by PICK - INDIA - PORTUGAL LISBON 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on three things,
1 How much it is broken
2 How sensitive you are to that
3 How soon you get a replacement / substitute for the reason of you heart break.
2006-11-27 08:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by master 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One day you will find yourself completely content with being alone - then someone will come along and you fall in love again. And you will miss this time alone. Average time it takes to stop crying - 6 to 9 months. Any longer and your milking it.
2006-11-27 10:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Clrinsight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it took about 21 months.
2006-11-27 09:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋