2006-11-27 00:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There is no point argueing with someone who is angry or aggressive, they are too emotional to see your point of view. So just say to them "I'm sorry you feel that way. I feel different". If they argue, just say again "Sorry that you feel that way. I feel different about it". Good luck.
2006-11-27 02:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends entirely on who you're referring to and the underlying triggers that cause them to be angry and aggressive
they could get help if they acknowledge they have a anger issue
a lot of angry people just need help shifting that energy elsewhere and how to deal with situations more appropriately
you could also explain (that is, if they are prepared to listen without getting into a fury) that getting angry all of the time is not good for their health...or yours! They are in fact increasing their chances of developing heart problems.
If all else fails and if it's your partner, the best thing you can do for them and yourself is to leave the relationship, it could be the wakeup call they need.
are they physically aggressive?
2006-11-27 00:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by town_cl0wn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm precisely like you, do not issue! i'm starring this because i favor to entice close the reply too. i'm very submissive and handle way too a lot because i'm so passive and characteristic a not difficulty-free time putting forward no to people out of concern that i will disillusioned you. yet then in certain situations the those that i rather rather do not favor to disillusioned say something and that i thoroughly blow it out of share and then scuffling with ensues. this is undesirable, and that i had to move out so as that i does not ought to deal with people. yet there is not something incorrect with you. What I actually were doing presently is consciously deliberating what i'm doing and putting forward at the same time as my mom says something that upsets me. regularly that's my tone that comes for the era of as making me a "psycho" so I have tried explaining flippantly and slowly why i'm disillusioned because they are not ideas readers and that i will't assume them to absolutely comprehend that i'm disillusioned. So I flippantly tell them in spite of the indisputable fact that if i'm rather indignant on the interior. which will also confirm your issue with miscommunication too!
2016-11-27 01:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact I was behaving so for about 10 years in my office and it was going tough day by day. Offlate, one young engineer joined our team. Whenever someone triggers me on the wrong side, he will immediately enter, make that person to tell me sorry and immediately drag him out. He will soon get me a cool lemon drink, and tell me not to loose my health for others blunder. All in few minutes....my ego gets satisfied ....and realize that I just behaved cruel with the people who do not have any gredge on me. He brings back the same person again and we sit and discuss with very jovial mood. His repeated intervention over a period made me to realize and behave as a normal person. Now I do not get upset with any of my collegues and rather I laugh at their mistakes.
That means.....to deal with him...tell sorry and withdraw from the scene immediately....send someone whom he likes to pacify and realise that his bevaiour was not so correct. He will become a nice person with time.
2006-11-27 01:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kadal Poonga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was/is very aggressive with me.I started to act like if i did not care by treating him the same way .But i did not let him get to me.Now he tries to stay away when we argue
2006-11-27 00:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by VIANNEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to be around this person confront them. Tell them that just because you work together doesn't mean you have to deal with their anger issues. Don't let their behavior control yours. If they are someone you just bump into occasionally ~~~ ignore them.
2006-11-27 00:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep hot gritz in a frying pan handy
2006-11-27 00:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by apple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away at a fast pace.
2006-11-27 00:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. Don't let them ruin your sanity. Eventually you will become a victim.
2006-11-27 00:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if its your boyfriend/husband, slap the hell out of him and dont give him what he wants for a while
2006-11-27 00:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋