Does your wife make you go shopping with her then make you follow her all over the mall while holding all her bags? Does she treat you like thats all your there for and act bitchyy? And do you also have to pay for all this? Does she make you fetch stuff and nag you for messing up?
2006-11-26 23:49:31 · 21 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
MEN, what would happen if you stuck up for your balless selves?
2006-11-26 23:54:48 · update #1
Apparently "REDYOUNGSTUD" thinks Im speaking of myself. Actually, I witness this from an aquaintance.
2006-11-27 00:00:55 · update #2
Apparently "REDYOUNGSTUD" thinks Im speaking of myself. Actually, I witness this from an aquaintance.
2006-11-27 00:00:58 · update #3
Oh BOY,,,,,, she done that all the time. Put her friends before her marriage. They could do no wrong and I no right. Complained about the way I stacked the dishes, folded the laundry, cleaned the house, made the bed. If that was not bad enough, she would fly off the handle for no reason. Hit,scream, bite, kick, mental abuse and verbal.
In 2003 she decided she wanted to go live with her mom and dad after 21 years of marriage, left without telling our daughter goodbye or that she was leaving. Funny thing, all her married sisters live with mom and dad , not husbands.
Never really owned anything while she was around, money in the bank, house and such. Now since she left, I own 4 houses in the tropics, one on my own private beach. Own commercial property and have over 2 mil cash in the bank. Her reaction now? If I buy a house in Hawaii she will come back! Somehow I think,,, NO THANKS.
She also shacked up with some guy and begged me not to divorce. She praised him by telling everything he does for her. I told her that is just what I did, the response? " I know that now, he made me see you were not a bad husband".
Why didn't I defend myself while she was hitting, biting, kicking? I did once, held her to the floor. She calls the cops and they try to arrest me for beating her and I have all the marks on me!
I'm doing better now everyway around, more money, properties and peace of mind. Will I look for another woman? I think so, but will not tell her everything I have so I know she's intrested in me and not the bank account. But I will never let another woman treat me like my ex did.
2006-11-27 00:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most men do not relish malls. Perhaps because in general men, like myself, go to a shop with specific item(s) in mind and buys it at the nearest store he could find. Women like window shopping and buy stuff on impulse. Also they are more sensitive to ambience and aesthetics. Thus women in general enjoys going to the mall, while men in general just tolerates it.
In this day and age, I am a dinosaur. I do not mind holding a lady's bag or purchases, or opening doors, or giving up seats. It is never taxing to me...it doesn't really take that much energy to do it.
As to the bitchy stuff.... I don't quite understand that. Perhaps you have been shopping in the wrong places and encountering a different crowd from mine. I have yet to see a girl bitching because her guy is opening doors, holding her purchases, etc.
With no specifics to go on, I would place my bet that the bitchiness has nothing to do with opening doors, or holding purchases, but with something else that likely occurred prior to the shopping scene. If you noticed the guy sulking, I would even double the bet that this poor sould erred somewhere and is making penance to get to the lady's good side again. Either that or I am a poor judge of character or living in the wrong side of the track.
2006-11-27 00:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I don't mind going to the mall either. It takes a real man to do things he doesn't always want to do. It's called mental toughness. And when I don't feel like going I say no. I have no problem holding the bags either, again, only a P*ssy would find that a hard thing to do.
2006-11-27 00:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord No! My wife and I are partners and enjoy each others company. All of what you said is alien to me! How does a Wife MAKE her Husband do that? What kind of a man does this willingly? It just isn't the way someone who supposedly loves you treats you.
2006-11-26 23:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I won't even go to the mall myself. I shop online, leaves more time for me to ride my harley. My husband has his own.
We do fun things when we go out, never go to the bloodsucking mall.
You seem pretty judgemental of wives. What's up with that?? How is how other people choose to live, your business?
2006-11-27 00:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Myrmaad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A husband should go shopping with his wife and hold her bags. He should pay for whatever she buys within reason and within budget. She should not be bitchy or naggy.
2006-11-27 03:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband shops with me but he does not carry my bags.i don't really spend money like that anyway. i know that there are women out there that are not respectful to there husbands, and they treat men like thy are their pack horses but not all women are like that. my husband and three kids and i shop together for groceries,clothes, supplies,and the toys and games and movies and whatever else we can afford to pick up. we don't use credit cards like they are our own personal piggy bank.yes my husband makes the money and i take care of the house,meals kids him ans yes, the finances. i am one of the few women that love and respect their husbands. that is why mine is still here.
2006-11-27 00:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cute
2016-03-28 21:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife does not make me do anything, i do go shopping with her, and we share in all the daily chores, etc. our relationship is a partnership, we share all household chores, and household expenses, there is no separate bank accounts. we are truly equal in all things. we go grocery shopping together, and even discuss wether or not we need the item we are looking at. as for shopping for clothing i go with her not because i have to, but because she wants my feelings on what she is buying for herself or our children or grand children. if you force someone to do something, you are laying the foundations for the break up of the relationship. your attiude and thoughts show your immaturity in life , good luck in growing up.
2006-11-26 23:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i try not to drag my bf about the mall with me when i have to go shopping.. he has a few times.. and he generally always carries everything for me.. even when we go grocery shopping..
i feel bad about doing it.. like he's some pack mule or something.. but he does it on his own.. and i know its because he doesn't like me having me lift a finger.. i appreciate it.. :) but he doesn't have too
2006-11-26 23:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋