after verble fighting, we started living separate,but i regrett what happened,better half not responding to my efforts to reconcile.
2006-11-26 23:26:59 · 13 answers · asked by hem4238 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should take help of relatives & common friends. You can als take help from women organisations (NGOS) who can bring about reconcilation between you 2.
2006-12-01 23:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For reconcilation both parties should have the interest. It cannot be patched up with one way traffic. You can definately try. You have to do whatever your spouse likes. Show that you love and care, your best efforts should be put in here if you really want to work out. Its definately tough but nothing worth trying for it. Nothing is impossible. All the best
2006-12-02 01:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Deepa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begging someone to forgive you never helps. He has to forgive you on his own. Step back and take a look at yourself - change the things you can and make yourself a better person - when you speak to him do not bring up what happened - now maybe not the best time to keep rehashing what happened. Do little things to bring him to open up to you - when you speak on the phone - speak with joy in your voice and make the conversation nice - dont sound depressed - let him see you are changing and he will come back in time - just have patience
2006-11-27 07:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by jodie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's better to let the dead dog lie there----sometimes marriages are over just because they're over---
The answer is right before you and you can't see because your vision is blurred by the prospects of reconciliation; Reconciliation at this point is probably out of the question due to non communcations with the other party----
You are the one that is being hopeful.....it takes two---to make a reconciliation possible!
2006-11-27 07:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you can repair and reconcile you need to understand why it fell apart to begin with... My guess would be lack of communication..
2006-11-27 07:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the better half isn't willing to give it their all and agree to make this work, stop wasting your time. One person cannot fix everything that is wrong.
2006-11-27 07:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her little more time to reconcile.
2006-11-27 08:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her more time to think and decide. Continue your love to her. Start discussing with her after some time. She will be yours.
2006-12-01 23:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your partner still loves you and you still love her. try to work it out. get counseling. talk it out.
sometimes things take time. stop the verbal fighting.
2006-11-29 19:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nicer to her treat her with respect, give her tender loving, always speak nice words to her, she will want you more.
2006-11-27 07:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋