so in my high school there’s a guy in year 12 and i am in year 11 and 3 months ago i found out that he was interested on me and then slowly i liked him too but we never really spoke we just used to stare at each other also because I am not that out going and also I don’t think he’s that out going too. since then his friends always used to stare at me whenever I walked past and they used to talk loud about him but the guy I liked was a bit shy tho I don’t know wether he’s just pretending or naturally like that, that and that was the first thing about him which made me attracted to him.
also because his locker was on top of mine so when ever we passed by we just gave a little smile sometime he even followed me but in a good way and i liked that and sometime I even wrote this small note to him while his exams were on saying good luck.
sometime I fear that he might break my trust because his friends are all badly influence and I just think if he is also then I cant change but sometime my friend warns me that he might just use me.
because I am asian with brown skin and my boobs.if its this then sorry he’s not my type because what I am looking on a guy is to respect me and accept who I am.
one time his friend asked me out and i said no so may be he might be scare that i'll say no to him too and is it that's why he's scare to talk with me. we sometime talked but was always just a short conversation and whenever I go to talk tohim his friends were around.
this kept going on untill the end of school year but because he's in year 12 so that was the last year for them so if he’s not going to do any thing then I might have to do something I had a fear of losing him.
because he didn’t asked for my number so I thought if I don’t give my number to him then nothings going to happen so I gave my number to his friend to give it to him and told him that to tell him just to come and see me before he leaves I waited after school but he didn’t come I was so sad but then my friends told me may be he was just flirting with me and they told me that he’s not worth but still it wasn’t as easy as they said because he was the 1st guy that I truly fell in for so that night he texted me saying “ that he was sorry that he couldn’t come and meet me so he said he was busy with his study because his exams were coming so he said that he’ll call me after the exams and said that we can meet up after the exams….and that’s my story…….
and now exams are all over and its already been more than a week since exams are all over and I am still waiting for his call but if he doesn’t call me then I ‘ll be going crazy but also I don’t want him to feel that I am desperate and chasing him..so I want him to call me and I want him to come to me…
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so guys do u think he’ll call me or shuld I call him?
plzzzzzzzz help me
2006-11-26 23:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by chick on fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wait at least another week, then I would call him, but don't ask him why he didn't call you or anything like that because it will just annoy him. Act like you weren't even expecting him to call you, and just casually ask him how his exams went. Keep the conversation short, just enough to remind him that you're still there. If he is really shy and you think this might be holding him back from asking you to hang out, you could try making the suggestion that he should hang out with you and your friends sometime. Don't ask him to hang out alone with you unless you KNOW that he is interested in you. After this phone call, if he doesn't call you back again, DON'T pursue this any further.
2006-11-26 23:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by J.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard to like someone and you don't know how they feel about you . I think if he was really interested he would made a move by now . But if you think calling him would make a difference then do it . This way you can see if all the hart ache is worth it . Some times guys just want to be friends . Yes that really happens . But for some reason the girl thinks it's more then that . May be he wants to be friends and is scared you might want more . Which is want you want . Call him . See how he responds to the call . If he is stand offish and makes the call short . He isn't interested . Move on . You have a whole school full of guys to pick from . Good Luck !
2006-11-26 23:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, it is okay to give him a friendly call, but always start out as a friend to get to know him more. Don't jump right into a relationship if u want it to last.
2006-11-26 23:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call u u dont want to seem to desperate
2006-11-26 23:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill and see what happens. If he does he does if he doesnt then hes a moron!
2006-11-26 23:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he forgot your #,sometimes people are embarrassed about miss placing things.
2006-11-26 23:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋