Is it all right for couples who are in relationships/married to look at porn? If so, why do you think that it's all right and what does it do for them? If you're already in love then why do you need to bother looking at other men and women naked? I don't see how it's necessary and "saves and spices up the relationship"...to me it's very bizzare and dishonest.
2006-11-26 22:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Italian Lady 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My wife and I have tried it and were turned off by it. Others say it helps their marriage. I don't understand it . Does seem dishonest as you say.
2006-11-26 23:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lesbian partner of 26 years and I occasionally enjoy watching gay male sex. Why? We can't explain it. Lesbian porn looks too fake. It's not like we do it all the time, in fact in 26 years I can still count on two hands the times we've rented porn...we would never own any or keep it in the house. It does spice up our relationship, we usually have very hot sex after watching it. Why? I don't know, but we aren't hurting anyone and it is just us two enjoying the benefits. We would never "swing" or ever contemplate cheating on each other. Does porn satisfy a need to fantasize doing so? I don't know. But as long as it feels good and hurts no one, why not? If you don't like it, that's okay, not all porn is disgusting.....child porn is because it hurt innocents and there is not enough being doing to crack down on these perverts.
2006-11-27 10:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's be pragmatic.
Unless youre stunningly attractive, there will always be someone, on the street, TV or silver screen, that your partner will find more physically attractive than you. They'll be playing thoughts of that person through their head while they jack off anyway, so you might as well allow them to do it in a fashion youre aware of. Otherwise they'll feel repressed and theyll be hiding a part of their sexuality from you.
This isnt to say your relationship-mentally at least, is a bad one. You may be perfect for each other. But flesh is flesh. And being with the same person for years makes some people crave variety, at least in their fantasies. It's very insecure to deny them their own thoughts, especially if you trust them not to act on them.
2006-11-27 06:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by KitsuneBoi85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well theres no problem at all !! yes there would be problem if either the guy or the gal watches them alone hidding it from their partners!Sometimes couples watch such movies just to get that passionate mood !! porn movies acts as a catalyst !!
2006-11-27 06:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by pradip n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem with it. It's a way to get more turned on; it's a type of foreplay. If both in the couple are ok with it, then it's ok. Different strokes for different folks. If you think its dishonest, then its dishonest for you.
2006-11-27 06:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mac181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do think its ok, if i were to watch porn i would do it with my other half. some people find porn a turn on and can help alot of couples!
2006-11-27 06:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it's fine. The thing that matters is that my love only kisses me and I'm the only one he has sex with. When he is scared he runs to me. When he needs to cry my shoulder is the first place to turns to. When he needs to vent he opens up to me. Hope this helps Seany's girl!
2006-11-27 09:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like its porn! when i guy OR GIRL wants to let one loose and their respective parter doesent feel up to it, let them do it! it doesent hurt anythinga nd i think if it hurts someones feelings that their partner is jackin to porn, then that person is extremely insecure because all its doing is getting him/her off. they dont sleep or love the porn. and it needs to be mutual. someone masturbating isnt cheating lol neither is porn.
2006-11-27 06:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Islamic teaching, it is prohibited to look at porn magazine.
2006-11-27 06:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ray Mystery 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes and it just makes them very horny that is about it
2006-11-27 06:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋