i always seen t obe putting on a happy face but im not , i cry at nights and my boyfriend is great when i have been in and out of hospital but all ithink about is trying to be happy!but its impossible!!!i dont want to be me anymore. all i have had is rejection and my mum and dad being too strict. at the moment i am 9 weeks pregnant and im so happy but forced to get rid of it!1not by myboyfiriend but by evryone else!what should i do about evrything!!!!
2006-11-26 22:30:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
don't do any thing you do not want to do because this is some thing you have to deal with all your life it is some thing that will never go away and don't let anyone tell you what to do it is not their problm to deal with and u can raise a baby and if he is still around hats off to him you have a good one good luck
2006-11-27 00:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear you feel like this! As for your baby.. its your choice dont get rid of it if you dont want to you will have to live with the choice you made no one else!
As for being sad have you been to your doctor?? a few years ago i went through a horrible break up felt very depressed over it. I decided one day i needed help as i was driving my self mad! I started seeing a counciler and started taking anti-depression tables.. These are not for everyone! just letting you know what i did. I know alot of people think this is the easy way out.. but i can asure you this really helped me!
I am now in a loving relationship and only took the pills for 6 weeks!
I hope things work out
2006-11-26 22:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of those emotions you are feeling are from being pregnant. You go through a whole range of emotions in 0-60...you don't say how old you are...or how old your boyfriend is. But if you choose to have this child, you will be responsible for this baby...not your parents, although they may help out. You really have to look at your situation honestly...can you take care of this child...can your boyfriend afford to provide for this child financially, where will you live, can you guys afford rent? If you think you are capable of raising this child, then go ahead...only you can make the decision as to whether or not to have this child. That decision should not be forced upon you...I wish you all of heaven's blessings...
2006-11-27 01:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my husband and i being unable to have hildren of our own and me suffering from a deep depression because of it, you and i are kind of in the same boat, just on different ends of it. i would love to have a child but sadly i cant and it rips my heart out everyday. there isnt one day that goes by that i dont cry when i see commercials with babies or hear of a friend or relative getting pregnant. you KNOW you can get pregnant obviously so if you chose to give this child up for adoption, I DONT condone abortion so i wont even list it as an option, then down the road if you and your bf are still happy together and in love you can start a family when the time is right. meanwhile, you could help out an infertile couple and give this baby a chance at a life worth living! he/she could have two wonderful parents that can provide for them. i dream of the day when I can be a mother but Im at the mercy of others now. good luck with whatever you decide!!!
2006-11-26 23:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ball up all your problems , makes it next to impossible to find answers. Prioritize things by ..what you can change and what you can't. If you suffer from depression, you just have to accept that it's part of you. You can treat it, control it, but it will always be there. if your a teen and pregnant, well you've opened a hornet's nest there. I'm a parent, and when my daughter was a teen I told her I understood hormones, but there was NO EXCUSE to being pregnant. I say that because birth control is available EVERYWHERE. Life is hard and if your not established raising a child and having a decent lifestyle is next to impossible. I only say that because under your folks frusration and anger is CONCERN (I'm assuming) for YOU.
2006-11-26 22:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really sorry for you at the moment. Life seems very difficult for you. I dont know how old you are, but you really, really need to find an adult who you can talk to and who can be on your side. Maybe some agency, government or charitable. Phone them or e.mai; them with the same unhappiness you have posted here, this is not the place for your problem, you need real help, support and answers. good luck.
2006-11-26 23:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by artistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 37 years old; and everyday I wish I had listened to my Mothers advice.
Your parents may seem out of touch, but they have been through
what you are trying to go through.
They have your best interest in mind.
Now I don't advocate abortion, but I do know that a baby will only complicate things for you.
Only you will truly have to deal with your consequences; but please think.
Your parents are not your enemies.
2006-11-26 22:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Parents are strict because they have your best interest at heart. they want you to be the best you can be. you cannot say you do not want to be you anymore. what would you wish for?. to live in palestine??or iraq..stop whinning and take responsibility for your life. Lots of people in the world would want to be you or at least in your shoes. just remember lots and lots of people are in worse situations but they do not give up.
2006-11-26 22:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the question "why does Jesus Christ make life worth living?" to anyone and everyone you can find, and do not stop until you find the answer you know is right.
this is the only way to find happiness and peace in every situation. trust me, i've been there.
but please don't give up the baby if you don't want to. if you are talking about abortion, there are hundreds of couples who can't have children, but want them. don't give in to pressure to kill your child. you will regret it.
2006-11-27 06:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by resistance fighter1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to help. Try talking to a priest or pastor, even if you are not a member of their church, they will help. If that makes you uncomfortable, look in the phone book under mental health, they can refer you to someone that can help.
2006-11-26 22:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋