ok so, i have now finished school and already i feel like my group as like basically split up! i mean two of my very good friends i have'nt seen in ages! i feel as though im always the one making at effort to see them i mean dont get mre wrong i wanna see them but they never ask me to do stuff its always me organzing it and wat not, it gets really annoying! wat should i do? stick with it or ditch them
2006-11-26 22:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by little_miss_bizaree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't help it if you guys are naturally drifting apart. If they no longer make the effort to see you, or each other, chances are that they don't deserve your company. You will make tons of new friends in life, it's ok to leave behind school buddies.
2006-11-26 22:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya'll probably have outgrown the friendship and dint really feel the need to hang out as much. After high school you will literally only stay good friends with about 1 or 2 people. People change and life goes on.
2006-11-27 06:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a real friend you would understand your friends, ask them if they are busy before trying to schedule a date with them.. remember time,distance,and experience are the things which measure real friendship.
2006-11-27 06:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Karen Adrienne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they aren't making the effort, call it a day and make a new circle of friends... If they are bothered, they'll be in touch... :D
2006-11-27 06:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happned to me. when we all graduated junior high and left to different high schools we rarely talked at all. we lived our own lives, now all we do is either arrange to hang out every month or so, or go to one anothers games. like football, and stuff. sad but, we're still friends...
2006-11-27 06:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend feels exactly like you at the mo, I'm the one of the best friends who is drifting. I have got myself new friends as have your friends, but you shouldn't just give up on them, please they may have a few problems and worries at the mo. u don't just give up if something doesn't happen straight away do you. -x-
2006-11-27 06:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lousiana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeping in touch and care for them is the key to growing a friendship :)
2006-11-27 06:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a new life after school believe me hang on if you want but most certainly move on
2006-11-27 06:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋