My friend/colleague (I no longer work there) keeps mentioning about going out one night. I've made a suggestion, but it's been too pricey for her (she wants to go to see a westend show). She told me if she hears of any cheap theatre tickets she'd let me know and vice a versa. So far nothing. I've told her I've seen some cheap shows to go to, which is in both our price range. She does keep saying she'd like to meet before Christmas and so I left it as, "Well, if we don't decide on a show soon, we may never meet". She hasn't answered. There are 3 shows in our price range, but it never pulls off somehow. I happily agreed to purchase these tickets over the net, as she's not keen on her details going on the internet. She does want to go to a show, but nothing goes ahead. What shall I do?
2006-11-26 21:43:35 · 7 answers · asked by The way I are 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is playing games with u and u sound desperate for a friend
2006-11-26 22:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by rachel d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you're planning to go to a show together and you want to go to one that you both want to see, but does that hae to be the first time you meet up?
Couldn't you go for a coffee or a drink or to the pictures or something and see a show at a later date?
Maybe suggest that, see what she says and make a decision from there. Does sound to me like you're making all the running at the moment...
2006-11-27 05:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really like this girl.
sometimes you have to work hard at forming and keeping up friendships. I would text her saying - why dont we just go for a drink to celebrate christmas, or invite her to your house for dinner.
maybe she doesn't have much money but doesn't want to say anything.
people on here will be nasty about her but - try not to always see the bad in people, remember - you like her for a reason.
2006-11-27 05:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Helen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it has to be a show? Or pricey?
Why not just meet in a cafe for a chat.
Who she is is more important than where you go.
2006-11-27 07:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes just saying that she wants to go but cant just straight out tell you that she doesnt really. Thats what it sounds like to me, and if you really want to see a show you should find someone else to go with.
2006-11-27 06:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and say that you want to make other plans so she has to let you know if your night out is going ahead.
2006-11-27 07:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too nice with her. Let her make the next contact. Why should you do all the work?
2006-11-27 05:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by Say It Like You Mean It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋