2006-11-26 20:57:02 · 18 answers · asked by joliy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there.
Now i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
2006-11-29 21:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably wont forget something like this for a while maybe never if you really cared and loved that person. The best thing to to is try your best to move on. Even though it can be pretty tough to do. Loving and losing a love is a part of life. Just know that you are not the only person to go through such a thing. Cheer up everything will get better. That is a promise :)
2006-11-27 04:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually,its hard to forget that someone you know..especially when through out the the relationship you have build your world around him..i've been through that odd and still cant figure out what's wrong with the relationship..im having a hard time forgetting him..its been a year since we broke up and i admit that i still do love him..im moving on in the sense that i still go to school and do the usual things even without him...i think what i felt for him was true love coz its not selfish..im not telling you to hope for the possibilities but for sure time will heal..maybe its not just the right time now...
god bless u>>:
2006-11-27 05:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by stan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister for the fact that you said you heaved "loved" him it shows that you nt clear with yourself of what you want if you love the guy than you will miss him or not for get him but since everything is in the past my friends with guy so DAT the wouldn't be any conflate of interest you go on with your life or try to go back to the guy and start again if still love him.
2006-11-27 05:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Abraham R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are hard and it's going to take time to get over the person. Do you want to get back with him and more importantly do you think he feels the same? If he doesn't then you need to try and move on, if he does then maybe you could talk. All the best x
2006-11-27 05:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with that person. The conversation will either show you that you were wrong to break up or it will remind of why you broke up. You may have made a mistake, don't wait until it's too late to fix it.
2006-11-27 05:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by jazzcrazy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard to get over someone if you still love them! The best thing to do is to try and keep busy talk to friends spend alot of time with them. If you dont have many friends try and spend time with family if you dont have family you are close enough to to spend time with try your hardest to find a hobby or something whatever you can to keep yourself busy!
2006-11-27 05:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by tinamarie3marietina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps deep down inside your heart you just dont wanna forget him. So, leave your bedroom and have some fun and then remind your self why were you two broke-up...Life must go on girl. But never push yourself to forget him coz the harder you'r trying to forget him the more you'll remember him....Just let it flow....
Good Luck to you
2006-11-27 05:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by ReyLia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but time will help. I still think of some one I loved at one time, and properly still do in one little lost corner of my heart. That was over 10 years ago.
2006-11-27 05:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Karen W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to forget someone hear are some remedies
a. Go for Shopping
b. Go with your friends to Pub / Discs
c. try to change your Lifestyle
2006-11-27 05:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Kshitij C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋