I hate my life?

Question

my life is boring, I have boring friends, they don't know where & when the parties are at, I haven't been to a party, well I have been to a lot of other parties but I don't consider them parties because they are ghetto, I've only been to those party crew parties where only black & mexican people go to, it's not that I'm racist, I'm just not into ghetto people, the people that go to those parties are people who are into the gangster, hip-hop & thug image. I wanna go to a typical white teen party, like they show in those teen movies, like the movie "American Pie", & those parties are hard for me to get invited to, c'mon, I've never been to one & I'm 18!!!, gonna be 19 in January, the ghetto parties are easy to get invited to because all you have to do is pay to get in, & the party crews have phone numbers that they call "info lines", that tell you where & when the party is at, I have some white friends that party, but they never call me, I always have to be the one calling them

Answer 1

Welcome to the real world... You are the one responsible for calling your friends when you want to spend time with them... If they are your friends... they'll make time for you.

Answer 2

I’m afraid your problem is not going to parties. Your problem is that you do not know.
a)what you really want
b)how to chose the right kind of friends.
In the first place at 19 years old I think you should aldo be concerned by what you want to do with your life when you are an adult.
Life is not just a series of parties where you can enjoy yourself by drinking, smoking drugs or having indiscriminate sex…
Life is something more. In the place where you live, there are buildings that have been built by people. And in people’s homes there are many appliances that have also been created and manufactured by industries run by people. Around you –though you do not pay attention to them- there are hundreds of people doing something to help your life become a better life.
Your mission in this world, therefore, is to become a man yourself, a man of value for the society, a man to be trusted by your friends and neighbors. And you better start as soon as you can.
So you should try to start by choosing the right companies and friends, and forgetting about those ghetto parties you mention.
Perhaps you should attend your Church more often, and if you do not have one, perhaps you should try one to see what happens.
And perhaps then, you might discover that life is not boring at all, when you help those who are in need, perhaps more in need that you seem to be…
Curious98

Answer 3

ghetto people? Just because they're Mexican and African American they're ghetto? You are such an Ignorant person. There are people having worse things happen in their life and you're just saying that your crappy little life sucks because you don't get invited to parties?! for starters the "ghetto" people that you know and go to parties with have probably been throught so much crap to be alive today and you're just disrespecting because of their race. I hope you get shot in the leg by one of those "ghetto" people as you call them. They have more dignity than you will ever have. Loser.

Answer 4

well you gotta have something to talk about in the first place, be useful to people. If there's something you're good at, join a club or something and diversify your social life. Nobody likes to hang out with a bore. Invite one of your pals to join a club, sportsteam, etc.. so you won't be alone in your efforts to expand your circle of friends. Since ghetto people is all you know it'll give you time to get acquainted with other mindsets and customs. Do this first and the rest will follow by itself...

Answer 5

sounds messed up to me. your priorities look like they're in the WRONG place. Got any cool hobbies ? Are you a cool guy ? OR do you think YOU're so cool, that your friends are so lame, then why are the your friends ? why can't you get any cool friends ? Do you live in antarctica, and you only have 3 people in your town, or do no cool people want to be around you ? Look up the word 'pretentious' in the dictionary- if that's you, maybe you can make some changes, grow up, and realize what it really means to be cool.

Answer 6

wow, American Pie was just a move, Dude
I've been white my whole life and never been to parties like that
the typical teen party is NOTHING like the movies portray, its really hard to plan an orgy of that magnituse

Answer 7

hey, I liked the house party movies, remember those?
You watch too many movies. I know "Mexicans" who like country dancing, going to art galleries, ballroom dances, films like Lion King, and whatever. and people of all groups the same. If you don't like gangsters, go to church, you get a much more interesting type of music and meet more people. Plus, get a job (or a better job). And don't dress like hip hop if you don't like it.

Answer 8

you seems like a shallow person,maybe i shoudnt scold you because youre only 18.but my friend you have to realise that the whole world doesnt evolve around you .in 5 years time youre going to regret these stupid remarks that you have made today.stop being a self centered brat and start helping youre parents out around the house and grow up your not 10.

Answer 9

being bored should not be a reason to hate your life!
a boring life only means you lack initiative and goals in your life.
ONCE you have a goal you can plan what you need to do to achieve it. then of course you will busy all the time and will have to plan your schedule to be "bored" again. lol

Answer 10

are you mexican or african american...because it sounds like you are..but you want to be around white people....nothing wrong with that....thats your decision...I think you should try to find yourself.....I dont think its the White party you want to be invited to...its the white people you want to be accepted by.

Answer 11

dude.. i freaking hate my life, bucuz i have all most NO friends. i hate my parents, i now suck at every thing i do, bucuz i am depessed. i am afraid to talk in my youth group. cuz i fear that i will flip out on people.and much much more... and you...hate life becuz you don't go to fun party's... like wow...grow up.