2006-11-26 18:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by Akhilesh Tongra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BY CONTROLLING YOURSELF...SUCH AS YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS! SOUNDS LIKE YOU MAY HURT HER AND/OR YOURSELF REAL SOON. TIME TO STEP BACK AND PUT SOME STOCK IN YOUR OWN LIFE BEFORE SOMEONE REALLY GETS HURT. SEPARATE PHYSICALLY AND GET SOME COUNSELING ASAP!
2006-11-27 01:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your wife isn't obedient, find a new one. Find one of those pathetic women who believe that men are the head of the household and everything a man says is to be obeyed. Maybe try finding this woman at a religious organisation possibly muslim or strict christian or a battered womans shelter. I should warn you though, women are not stupid and usually see the light some time and stop being obedient and take control of their lives. You see, women are people. Hopefully you seek help for your severely delluded veiw of yourself as a man and learn how to respect and love your wife for the person she that she is instead of the slave you wish she was.
2006-11-27 02:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding me?? What the heck are you talking about--Obedient--is she a dog?? what planet did you come from and how come you haven't gone back?? Listen carefully to these words and learn ----
Not taken from the head to be above you
Not taken from the feet to be below you
But taken from the rib to walk next to you
We as people marry not to be controlled by our spouse but to compliment each other --to strengthen the weakness and to enhance the less able--not to be overpowered and belittled and used as a doormat--that goes for both husband and wife--why would you feel you need to control your wife?? By loving her and showing her you are honored by her then she in turn will do the same for you willingly thru love not power ---
Were you not taught to treat people the way you want to be treated?? Hey guess what it works!! I think you need to either get some serious counseling or let your wife go so she can be happy and you?? Go get a dog --Oh by the way I will pray for the dog
2006-11-27 03:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Indian man...when will you change...
wife is not a pet that you expect her to be obedient...she is human being just like you..she has feeling too she feels pain too...she has dreams too...she wants to be happy too....she is not a machine to plese you and your family...she is your life partner...share your life with her...be caring and she will give you more ...
so if you want to be happy start treating her like you want to treated from her...or if you keep trying to control her ..be prepared as will be leaving you soon..
Skkizle gave the best answer to you...
2006-11-27 05:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by 28March2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are your demands that she refuses to "obey"? why would you like to control another human being?
Get a control of yourself and your life first. You should earn respect, not be eager to "control".
do not fall into this mental trap of "spousal control"! be a smart man and a good husband. communicate with your wife. "control" will get you pain and divorce, but love with get you a great marriage and a friend for life!
2006-11-27 03:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by sadsmile 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She's not a dog to control, she's your wife. Learn how to get along with her and she'll want to do what makes you happy.
2006-11-27 10:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the 21st century, when are you living???? Marriage is
not about control, its about love, loyalty and trust, so grow up.
Your wife is your partner, not your possession. Until you get
that through your thick Neantherdal head, you shouldn't be
married at all. I pity the poor woman who is stuck with such
a cretin.
2006-11-27 02:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Caiman94941 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok, first off, what planet are you from that u think u can control ur wife and make her 'obedient' to you? you DEFINATELY need help, or is it her that needs it to stay away from you or divorce you. she is NOT YOUR PROPERTY and dont think for 1 MINUTE that she is, you cannot control her. one day it'll turn violent and you'll find yourself in the local slammer!!!!. i cannot believe there are still people like you in this world today??? geesh, get a life...!!!
2006-11-27 02:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't use the word "control", try talking and serious discussions or counselling. If she is really not suitable as a wife, divorce her.
2006-11-27 02:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only the WEAK seek control over others ...
2006-11-27 03:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋