Does being gay make you a more sensual person or a more sensitive lover?

Question

Being a sensual lover has NOTHING to do with 'personality' -- it is a part of introversion, personal expression, which relates to AWARENESS - not personality....

Answer 1

Absolutely Ash. I have had this chat on many occasions with my straight pals, Guys and Girls. The guys are initially not all thet forthcoming, but their sensitive and sensual experiences are generally initiated by tyhe girl and them following.

The girls that I have chatted with, in many instances feel that straight guys are somewhat unimaginitive, and JUST WANT TO GET IT ON.

Gays I have been involved with, well, all of us try to get MAX fun, and the 'consummation' is just the cherry on top.

Answer 2

Of course not! Or at least, I seriously doubt it. There are selfish jerks in both straight and gay beds, and there are kind, sensitive, responsive lovers in each, too.

There's this stereotype of straight men as being gruff in bed, not caring about their women and their orgasms, but I've found that to be quite untrue- many men love nothing more than to be good lovers, and take a lot of their pride from that.

As for sensuality, well, that's just a personal thing that varies from person to person, although you could make the argument that being gay (and hence having to contemplate and define yourself by your sexuality oftentimes) might make you more sensual. But I don't particularly buy into that; I'm sure there are gay prudes and non-sensual gay people, as well as straight.

Basically, nah, I don't think so.

Answer 3

i think being gay doesn't make you any of those...

There is a LOT of gay guys that are NOT seansual and Definately, NOT Sensitives either...

Sensual and Sensitive it's just a part of some human beens, not so much of a condition that comes with your sexuality...

By the Way, I AM very sensual, and i could be sensitive sometimes too... Give me a call. ;)

Answer 4

No. What makes a person a more sensetive or sensual person is their individual personality. Sexual preference doesn't play a part. People can figure out that they have a sexual preference, but that won't automatically make them a sensetive or sensual lover. Otherwise, every gay couple would be in bliss (and that would be impossible!)

Answer 5

I would agree that if you are already an a$$hole that it doesn't mean anything which lifestyle you choose however if you select the alternative lifestyle early in school then you will reap a harvest of hell,and at the end of the day actually most become very sensitive ppl,and this sensitivity plays into their lifestyle,being sensitive to your love,can be very sensual.If you maintain this lifestyle into older age you develop skills of patience,empathy,compassion,listening & hearing,among much more.

Answer 6

No.

No, no no.
By all the gods, no.

I can't tell you how many gay people I've met who've been completely clueless and "me me me" in bed.

Er, well I could. But that'd be TMI.

Point being:
Gay men are men. Bottom line. Some are sensitive, some are rough, some are sensual and some wouldnt know foreplay if it beat them in the face with a dildo. Well, maybe if it beat them in the face with a dildo, but only then.

Answer 7

Sensuality and sensitivity is not exclusive to one or the other. Both can be sensual/sensitive and both can be sorely lacking.

Answer 8

not all gays are very gentle. count of certainty i've got met some gays i'm quite particular have been sociopaths. lol. ("some are because of the fact they comply with gay stereotypes." Thats rude and untrue. some individuals are greater senstive than others, regardless of intercourse, gender or sexual orientation.)

Answer 9

Yes to both, because a woman knows what a woman wants and needs. Same goes for the dudes.

Answer 10

Being gay doesnt change people's personalities..you are who you are..if your an a$$hole, ur still an A$$hole if your gay or straight...