Will you ever be happy or will bad things keep happening to you? Will you go to hell when you die?
2006-11-26 18:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by misscleo779 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't think so. But I know when I dishonor either of them, I may be happy about it at the moment, but in the end I feel the guilt. Sometimes when I think about how much/the look on their face of disappointment, I get mad/frustrated with myself for not knowing better.
2006-11-26 18:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by julieanthony469 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "dishonor?" Regardless of what you mean, there is no such thing as "cursed." Random bad things don't happen because you did something completely unrelated. It's possible specific things could change if your parents are no longer in your life and you don't have them to turn to for help or advice or inheritance. There is no "hell" so you can quit worrying about that nonsense. Plenty of people have cut all ties or been cut off from their parents and went on to wonderfully successful lives. Often parents are very controlling and use conditional love as a weapon and the only recourse is to abandon them to their pathos and make your own life the way you see fit. You will still carry the baggage of being raised by them until you take the time and risk to face yourself, admit your hurt, and figure out a way to forgive them for not being perfect, for wanting to desperately hold on to you so much that they drove you away with their criticisms, threats and punishments. And you have to forgive yourself for not being the perfect child they unfairly envisioned and tried to mold into being, and instead focus on what you want, what success means to you, where your passions and talents lie, and your happiness.
2006-11-27 02:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The curse can only be real if you give it power. A mother and father are human beings as well, so if you mother and father are worthy of your love than dishonor should not exsist for you.
2006-11-27 02:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lesha a Canadian. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't believe that, you honor your mother and father always, except when your mother or father are disrespectful of you or constantly put you down and humiliate you, and if this doesn't change then you are not at fault, God sees their heart.
How have you dishonored your mother and father, the bible says that you will honor them so your days on earth are longer.
It also says parents do not provoke your children to anger.
Parents, must also abide by this. If you've done the right things, then you are okay.
2006-11-27 02:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't ask to be born to your parents, they choose to give birth to you so I don't see any dishonoring involved in the relationship. Your life, your choices.
2006-11-27 02:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by Craiova 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you will not be cursed your whole life.
2006-11-27 02:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on d severity of wat u've done..
u wont b cursed or anything but 4 sure u'l feel so guilty unless they 4give u
2006-11-27 02:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...relax...it's ok..u'll probabyly just get grounded -what are u 13?
2006-11-27 02:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋