2006-11-26 18:04:25 · 10 answers · asked by ruby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't do nothing, a note is not a big deal yet
:> peace
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2006-11-30 15:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was to another woman then you are most certainly betrayed, he would not send such words to someone he doesnt know intimately so youl have to dig deeper and find out just how far the whole thing has actually gone!!
2006-11-27 02:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we wr in the same boat, a year ago i ask my husband if he can give me load for my cp but he told me just to use his.. but everything in his cel is deleted.. inbox, outbox, sent msgs.. but not the 'creat msg' portion.. written there is the word i love you to someone from somewhere..
i call him and show him the msg.. and i was even smilling.. (same as you, i dont know what to do or how to react) and of course he deny it.. he said that a friend borrow his cel and wrote it for a certain girl.. i know he's lying..
i cried, we sleep side by side and i cried alot.. i did not say anything.. i just cry and cry to show him and for him to know that it is really painful and i was hurt.
his conscience bothered him..
i did not talk to him for about a week.. and when i am finally ready to talk about the thing, i told him and i swear to him that i'll never ever got mad on him if he will do it again.. i'll just get even...
2006-11-27 08:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just be upset. find out who is this someone else. Saying I love you to someone else isn't necessarily a bad thing, but getting upset about it be for u have the facts is. What no trust? If not u have bigger issues than this.
2006-11-27 02:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Special Edition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared to leave first before it get any worse. The second thing you need to do is to confront him in a calm, pleasant manner. Get him in a good mood laughing and enjoying himself and then ask your questions. You deserve honesty and a true comittment. Don't let anything take your self-esteem away ever!
2006-11-27 02:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your marriage is in trouble. Would he be willing to go to counseling with you? If not, that would be very telling in itself. Go by yourself anyway, that way you can figure out what you will and won't accept and be in a better position to make decisions about it. Good luck!
2006-11-27 02:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Samething I did go after the thing that think she is all that just ask ldagar or also as lelia2427A
2006-11-27 02:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those three words can actually be very perfunctory and hollow..
Don't over react...
2006-11-27 02:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's depends who he's sending to.
his mother?
2006-11-27 02:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes!.... don't do anything yet... just wait and get more info.
2006-11-27 02:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋