Im 18 years old and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do in this situation. Im scared and confused and I just need someone who has experience in this situation to talk to me and give me advice. i just need someone to listen. leave a comment if you have yahoo messenger.
2006-11-26 17:46:22 · 13 answers · asked by babiigurl4utwo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Right now I only have AIM and my screen name on there is ekalbyecal05 and I have a myspace account and the url to that is
www.myspace.com/lacey_unne I had my first child when I was 19 so I would be more than happy to help you out the best way that I can!
2006-11-26 17:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was 18 when I had my daughter and I had to grow up REALLY fast. Now my daughter's father and I are married, living in a nice place and he has a great job so I am able to be a stay-at-home Mother. We had a very rough start at first though. Both of our families wanted us to give her up for adoption and were mad for a long time. Are you married or have a boyfriend that is willing to help you take care of a child? You will lose a lot of your friends because you'll never be able to go out. Then if you're anything like my husband and I when you do go out it won't be what you're probably doing now... Partying, shopping, etc. We'll go to the movies or out to dinner then we go home. Can you afford a baby? Do you have a job that would provide insurance for you and your baby? Don't get me wrong, I love my daughter more than anything and she is my life but sometimes I feel like I didn't ever got to be young. Also, I was lucky, most couples that have a baby young don't last and are you willing to be a single Mother? Babies are cute but they aren't cute when they're waking you up every hour and a half needing to be fed. These are things you need to think of.
2006-11-27 09:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by BDiPaolo413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read some of your answers to questions you have on your home page,it"s a wonder your only pregnant.You might get started by making some very big changes in your life style.I don't believe abortion is an option for you.A baby shouldn't have to die so you can have sex whenever you want to.Take some responsibility for your actions and start living as if you cared about yourself first,and then those around you.I know you probably think I'm just some jerk,but this is very good advice.Next time you ask a question it could be about AIDS,so wake up and smell the coffee.
2006-11-26 18:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not signed onto my yahoo right now but you can add and send me an email. I was 18 when i got pregnant and went though a lot the first few months. I'll be glad to talk and give you any advice. Just make sure you let me know who you are if you contact me.
2006-11-26 18:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by mizzgov_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been in your shoes exactly but both of my sisters got pregnant between 17-19 and I have a 2 1/2 year old son of my own. I am a good listener and love to help. chrissy757 on yahoo messenger.
2006-11-26 17:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont have yahoo messenger im sorry but im 16 and found out i was a couple weeks ago.. its hard mostly when im still in high school.. but u no.. everything else doesnt matter to me anymore except trying to raise a healthy baby and give it the happiest home i ever could dont worry about anything else not ur boyfriend (if one) what people say , or what your family has to say.. its u and ur baby!!!!!! im younger then u are but i am here to talk.. my email addy is open if u want to email me.. i should look into messenger....
2006-11-26 17:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i can listen been there done that at 16. i know it is scary but have you tried to talk to your mother about your situation or the father of you baby two questions for you how far a long are you and what do you believe in.
2006-11-26 17:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by krazy4_coke2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl i feel for you, i am sixteen and i just had a baby, so i know what your goin through, so email me at lonely_but_laughing@yahoo.com. I gave my son up for adoption and it hurts but i know that it was the best thing for both me and my child. But your 18 so you might consiter keeping your baby. So write me and we can talk more........All the luck in the world to you....
2006-11-26 18:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Amelia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great_equate, feel free to IM me whenever you want. We are the same age, and I know what you're going through. I think i'm pregnant too. Actually I don't see why i wouldn't be.. condoms suck! LoL
2006-11-26 17:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey
i had my daughter 8mths ago n i was 19!! if u wanna talk bout ANYTHING at all email me missamy@adam.com.au
its worth it in the end, i promise:)
good luck
2006-11-26 22:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by amy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋