I know i Ask alot of questions on here but..My othe friends and family dont have good answer to all my questions...but..Heres my story...Well my friends tends to get picked on my The clicks in my school and I just became friends with her This year..I know her very well But i didnt know she got picked on by so much people..I mean I want to Stand up for her..and tell them to stop..But i dont want to get in fights and put a bad inpression on myself around others..Because in school Im EXTREMELY quiet and I dont talk much...I dont really like to be noticed..But i can tell my friends feelings are being hurt..What should i do? SHould i stand up to the bullies or Just step aside and not get in it?
2006-11-26 17:40:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It hurts growing up and going to school where everyone makes fun of you, but it hurts even more when your one friend never helped. Im not saying you should get in fights but dont stand back while your friend is in trouble and in help. Im sure if the tables were turned she would help you. There are ways to confront people and let them know what they are doing is wrong with out starting a physical fight. And I also know that in school this may seem easier said than done. But i use to be in school so Im not just some adult who is tryin to tell you to do the "right" thing. You should know what the right thing is already. Talk to your friend and help her stand up for herself as well. you cant do all her bidding either. Let her know you are by her side but she also needs to take up for herself, cause no matter how much you try to help, you cant always be around when she needs you. When they ppick on her.. dont get an attitude, attitude only provokes people. Politely but sternly tell them to leave you both alone. If they threaten you, you can always go to the principle. Yea yea sounds like something a snitch would do, but its better to snitch than to get hurt and end up in the hospital or worse. Dont take no chances. Walk away from fights, but dont be scared. In the end they will eventually leave you both alone. ( your in this now if u decide to help) Bullies only pick on people who show fear. Without fear they have nothing to feed off of, so no reason to pick on you if you stand up and let them know you are boss of you and know one else. Be strong. And goodluck, thats all the advice I have, hope the best for the both of you.
2006-11-26 17:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by stoneydork21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stand up for your friend..she probably needs to know someone is behind her, and that shes not alone...being picked on can be really hard. You don't have to get involved, but you can still stand up for your friend and support her.
2006-11-27 01:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stand up for her...otherwise she'll never learn let her stand by herself..as of now try to talk to her and tell to her about your opinions about it this might help her to realize certain things about it....
2006-11-27 01:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn Kung fu san soo and protect your self!
2006-11-27 02:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you are no friend.
2006-11-27 01:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋